There is a grievous error that people make in relationship which I wish to caution you against. Do well to avoid it as much as you can. It is taking your wife, or friend for granted.
When someone becomes your friend or wife, there is always the temptation to start taking them for granted.Once someone is your, the reasoning is that the one is conquered territory; and you don’t fight to conquer conquered territory. If this is true, it is also true that if you do not take measures to protect conquered territory, the conquered people may rise and regain their freedom especially if you have not been satisfying their needs.
It is necessary to fight fair for your love, marriage, relationship. Fight fairly for it everyday. Do not take it for granted. Taking your love or marriage for granted is one of the worst errors in relationship.