Pain associated with a breakup has the ability to consume our thoughts and lives. The person left behind is often left shattered and heartbroken. Some days you feel as if you can’t even get out of bed and face the day. But you do. It may not be easy at first, but slowly you feel better. You immerse yourself in the pain of the loss, but you need to also immerse yourself in the beauty of you. Another person cannot break you, it may feel like they have because they have left, but do not give them that power. It is your life and you have a choice of how you want to live it, not have it defined by another person, who didn’t choose you.
Don’t live for the pain, live for the rising after it passes.