Before you got married, your sweetheart was your priority and occupied your mind and heart all day long. That was the person you wanted to see first thing on getting out of bed in the morning and last thing before going to bed in the night.
You were not married then and each of you swore you would die if you did not get married to each other.
Now you are married. What has gone wrong? Why are you no longer mad about each other? It seems the things that you adored in your spouse are the very things that you hate now.
What has happened to the excitement that burned in you? Tell me what has happened.