Finding Joy

And then there was one

One thing I can say about my life is that it never goes as planned. I have friends who have gotten married, had kids, decent jobs and life hasn’t totally changed their paths. Of course we all encounter changes – loved ones die, get sick, jobs are lost – but for the most part these friends lives stay on course. Marriage and kids – the traditional route for many.

Then there are the rest of us – those who have encountered divorce, death of a spouse or partner,  children who have passed away (this is horrifically heartbreaking), job loss, devastating financial loss. We had dreams too but those dreams were so cruelly taken away.

There are those who like to say this is God’s will, he has a plan for you. I don’t want to offend anyone but I do not believe there is a supreme being up there deciding…

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