The Disappearing Friend

And then there was one

We all have them and some of us have done it too. We reunite with our old loves or we are in a new relationship and all of sudden we disappear. Those late night sessions where we’d cry to our friends about the guy who hurt us or that we hated being single are now a distant memory. And we become the friend that disappears. Our life has gotten better and we don’t need to cry or vent anymore. Slowly we start to pull away, call less, text less, just be there less.

I’ve had these friends in my life and I have done it in the past, years ago, not anymore as I’ve gotten older. With age comes wisdom. Even in my most recent relationship I would never hesitate taking a phone call, sending a text (not hours later), seeing someone or just being there when a friend needed…

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