An Ideal Husband and Wife…..

​From the Diary of an Ideal Husband.. 

There’s a bakery shop near to our house. Often, on my way back home in the evening, I buy some stuff for the morning breakfast. Today, as I was about to leave the bakery, I met our neighbour Mr. Suresh who himself was leaving the same shop. After the exchange of some traditional greetings, the conversation went like following.

I asked: “What have you bought?”

Suresh replied: “Nothing much , just some chicken patties and some sweetmeats for my wife and children”.

Jokingly, I enquired, “Why so? Hasn’t your wife cooked today?”

He said: “No, it’s not like that. Actually today in office we were a little hungry so my colleagues ordered some patties and sweetmeats. Since, I had this at the office I thought to buy some for my family too. It’s not fair that I eat whatever I like at the office while my kids and wife remain bound to eat whatever is cooked at home.”

Confounded with great surprise, I stared at him because I never thought this way before.

I said: “What’s the big deal, ajay?  If you eat food of your own choice at the office, your wife and children would also be having whatever they like to eat at home.”

Suresh replied: “Not at all,  My wife saves for me from everything there is. Even if someone from neighborhood sends something, my wife first saves some for me and then distributes it among my kids. It would be very selfish if I just enjoy good things with my friends and not with my family.”

Amazed upon hearing this I said: “Enjoying? This bakery stuff is what you think is enjoyment?”

He said: “Whatever ! I dread the time when on the Day of Resurrection I’ll be questioned about this. That I took someone’s daughter into marriage and had fun with my friends while she ate whatever little was available.”

Completely stunned, I couldn’t move my eyes off him while he continued.

“Look, when we get married to someone’s sister or daughter, they are human beings as well. Just like us. They too have hunger needs. They have their desires as well. They too wish to taste lots of delicious foods or foods of their choice, to try different kinds of lovely outfits. They also want to move and travel around. Keeping them caged like a bird, providing them meals twice a day and having a sense of smugness for doing all this is selfishness. And the way we treat the daughters of others is the way our own daughters and sisters will be treated because what goes around comes around.”

His last words shook me to a great degree. I never thought like this before.  Concluding the conversation with Ajay I said, “Great! You have made me think from a different perspective.”

I turned back to the shop.

Suresh: “Where are you going?”

I replied, “To buy some ice-cream…actually I had some ice-cream at the office today.”

Suresh and Myself took their respective paths. Ajay was glad to have a positive impact on me. On the other hand, I now, knew how to keep my wife and kids happy and acknowledge all the efforts my wife does for my happiness.


Wives make a Family life beautiful 👸💁.. Hope all Husbands realise this 💕💑💏👨‍👩‍👧‍👧👨‍👩‍👦‍👦

When it comes to a Relationship…no one should have Power over the Other..
It isn’t a Power Trip…it’s about working toghether as a  Team and building a Bond that can’t be Broken💞💗💕


On a lighter side…..      How to keep wife happy . . . .

It’s really not difficult to make a wife happy. …

A husband only needs to be:

a friend ,  a companion,  a lover,  a brother,  a father,  a man,  a chef, an electrician, a carpenter, a plumber, a mechanic,  a decorator,  a stylist,  a charmer,  a gynecologist, a psychologist, a bug exterminator,  a psychiatrist,  a healer,  a good listener,  an organizer,  a good father, Very clean, Sympathetic, Athletic, Warm, Attentive,  Gallant, Intelligent,  Funny,  Creative,  Tender,  Strong,  Understanding, Tolerant,  Prudent,  Ambitious,  Capable,  Courageous,  Determined,  True,  Dependable, Passionate,  Compassionate…..


Give her compliments frequently,  Love shopping,  Be honest,  Be very rich, Never stress her,  Never look at other women !


Give her lots of attention, but expect little yourself,  Give her lots of time, especially time for herself,  Give her lots of space !!


Never to forget:    birthdays ; anniversaries; her favorite color ; her favorite flower ; her favorite gem ;  her favorite fragrance ; her favorite memories ; her favorite holidays ; her favorite friends ; her favorite vacation destinations; her favorite beverage ; her favorite food ; her favorite restaurant ; any arrangements she makes


 Just leave him alone…..with his TV remote…and his favourite drink…..And he’ll be just fine…😁😀😍😃

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Shobha Iyer View All →

Always be Happy; always wear a Smile, Not because Life is full of reasons to Smile, but because your Smile itself maybe a reason for many others to Smile ;The Greatest Thing In Life Is Love And The Second Is Laughter..

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