Look at yourself

Are you dependent
Or independent?
Are you strong
Or weak?
Are you inferior
Or superior?
Are you second rate
Or first-rate?
Are you second-class
Or first-class?
Are you immature
Or mature?
Are you minor
Or major?
Are you negative
Or positive?
Are you lazy
Or hard working?

You can add to this list of questions. They are important. Let them help you take a good look at yourself.