Everyone has a different definition of a great marriage. Regardless of the definition, according to God, marriage has the same rules. A happy marriage is what makes one thrive and flourish. No one enters a marriage expecting to become a negative statistic. Yet know one really knows how it will turn out.  Marriage can be hard work, but there are many things you can do to enhance the odds of success.

The little things matter. Small gestures and habits lead to success. When I got married 22 years ago, all I thought about was what if it doesn’t work. After seeing so many friends and family members divorce, why would my marriage be different? Nevertheless, I wanted it to be different and I was convinced that it would be. Twenty-two years later I’m still working at it, everyday. I’ve learned that marriage isn’t 50-50 as we were always taught, BUT…