A little tree twinkles on the coffee table. The instrumental music of Elvis Presley’s song, “Blue Christmas” softly plays while you rub your stocking feet together. Staring into the flickering light of the fireplace, you glimpse the Three Wise Men moving on the mantel. It was an inherited nativity scene, now meant for one person only to enjoy this Christmas.
It’s a ‘single’ holiday. Perhaps the children are grown and gone, you’re a widow or widower, or just alone with no one to snuggle with under the covers and to wish a “Merry Christmas” to on this day. But, did you know singleness is a gift from God? In 1 Corinthians 7, Paul speaks candidly of this aloneness as being a higher calling–a time to dedicate our lives to serving the Lord. Single people can devote themselves entirely to His work without marriage troubles or the anxieties of children interrupting the flow of your Christian duties. So, make the most of being unattached while it lasts!
Depression knocks quickly on the door during the holidays when you are alone, but turn this negativity into positive energy. This world is full of others who want a visitor at Christmastime. Visit a homeless shelter, senior homes, other single members of your church, a food bank, or help deliver gifts to the needy. A smile of gratefulness will brighten your season.
Not into the above suggested community activities? Try turning on an inspirational Christmas movie, or one which will cause you to laugh (“Elf” perhaps??); deliver cookies to your neighbors, or read the Christmas story in the Bible; call someone you haven’t connected with in a while for a light conversation. Did God bless you with creative talents? Get crafty and build something or create new tree ornaments; accept a dinner invitation. You have the gift this year to do what your little heart desires, and you never know who God will place in your way along the path of fun.
You’re not alone this season. The Holy Spirit is trying to anoint you so feel your blessings and rejoice! The ultimate gift is to live better with compassion and faithfulness. Don’t let the Star of Bethlehem shine on a nativity for one – let it glow God’s love for others too!
God bless you and have the merriest of Christmases!