Living Concepts…


India is a country with different cultures,  I come from South where people are more cultured, who follow and believe rituals of the religion even more than their own life.

I am one among them but was attracted with wrong message of “live the life you wanted” and made attempts to escape from these beliefs and rituals.

I mentioned the term “escape” as I know if had been bold enough to be against it I would have saved my life, but in the attempt to escape from this I got trapped in the hands of the opportunist’s who took hold of my Innocence and vague thoughts for their own selfish motives

As my attempts were more towards escaping , every decision that I made were proven wrong starting from  choosing a wrong guy to marry, choosing a wrong course to study, choosing a wrong property, choosing a wrong car, choosing a wrong city and what else couldn’t have happened….all wrong’s happened to me only; just because I choose to “live the life I wanted”

Now all of a sudden when I realized this is not what I really wanted to do. Except for marriage I was able to reverse everything.  After a long analysis , I wanted to start living my life with the guy whom I married and showed that he loved me and made me believe so….  So you see A simple concept of  am I “living my life”  would have saved my life.

Although I can find many excuses to get away from problem, when one day you really have a good life,  things you created would have been would be the ones that were pushed to you and you may really not need them in life…

Everything is a seed of good thoughts in mind ,  so don’t try to ever escape from where you are and try to develop yourself to grow in all aspects.

Happy that I did realize this in my young age and will fix it before I am in need to escape again…. So I am now “Living My Life”

This is the world of opportunists , so don’t be fooled when one says “live the life you wanted”  always keep in mind “living my life” is different from “live the life you wanted”.

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Shobha Iyer View All →

Always be Happy; always wear a Smile, Not because Life is full of reasons to Smile, but because your Smile itself maybe a reason for many others to Smile ;The Greatest Thing In Life Is Love And The Second Is Laughter..

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