“It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us.”

  • Marianne Williamson



Why You Should Value Yourself.

It’s important to value ourselves. Value from within. Value that makes our standards uncompromising with mediocrity.

In the middle of all the challenges life throws at us, we stop trusting our own worth. We give up. We forget that we are the most advanced specie that exist.

It’s important to create your own destiny which can only happen when you know your worth and value yourself.

Let’s go!

Can Destiny Be Changed?

To me, this is a very fragile topic because any wrong words could go contrary to our beliefs.

If we believe that we can change our lives by deciding to make required important changes, then destiny can be changed.

On the other hand, I have read a lot about the ideas that destiny cannot in fact be changed.

This, to me, implies that if you are destined to be something then you cannot run away from it. What about the person who believes he is destined to be wicked? Or the man who has given up because he thinks he is destined to be poor?

Is this wrong? Do we or do we not hold the keys to out destinies?

I mean, is there even a destiny? How can one find it? When you find it….can you change it?

Well, I think destiny can be changed. You can change it as many times as you want in fact. I believe so because believing that destiny cannot be changed is going contrary to the belief that we have free will that is endorsed by God himself. Image result for destiny can be changed

The creator of us gave us free will. We can choose from what is bad or good, it is our choices that shape our destiny. Our activities form our destiny and these include our thoughts words and deeds. Each of these are seeds that we plant every moment and they are nurtured through the workings of the Laws of Creation such that at a definite time we will have to reap what we have sown earlier on as seeds.

I have head people say destiny cannot be changed, it can only be delayed. Nope. I don’t buy this idea. Related image

As an example, a person who nurtures envy in a relationship may not expect to reap happiness from that interaction. On the other hand acts of kindness will bring us a harvest of peace. So, we can only expect results that are similar to the earlier seed. The Law that brings these about is the unchangeable Law of Sowing and Reaping, the Law of Reciprocal Action. This law is popular in almost all cultures. You reap what you sow. Image result for destiny can be changed

There is no destiny written somewhere that must happen. You are that author. God is just there to execute our wishes, and occasionally put us back on track.

It is clear that through the working of the Laws of God, man is made the absolute master of his destiny. We are free to do as we will. Because He gave us free will, he also gave us guidelines as to how we can exercise our freewill so as to get the most out of it. 

Today I need you to tell yourself this; Image result for destiny can be changed because it’s the truth. Stop settling because someone told you that destiny cannot be changed. Why then are we here?

Let’s go!




I remember when I was little, I used to want to be like the drawings I saw in my textbooks, literally.

I wanted to enter my books and live with them.

Why? Because they seemed really happy, they didn’t have to work, they just had to smile and play.

Today I am thankful that all our prayers don’t get answers.

Those were stickers: lifeless, motionless and empty.

Are you a sticker?

Are you living life or just going through the motions?

Have you let the world around you drain you of all emotions?

I just want you to know that it’s time to distinguish yourself from the stickers in our books, and start doing human things. Good human things.

You are more than you think, challenge yourself even more.

Push yourself until you break free from being a sticker and start being a human.

Let’s go!

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Do you ever get those days of nostalgia when you just tell yourself all this suffering through life is pointless?

We are just existing in space, nobody knows for sure where we are from or where we are going to.

Today I feel like I have ants under my sheets.

Like there is something I need to do but I can’t put my finger on it.

Like there is still so much to be done, but so little time.

Do you get these days?

How can we overcome nostalgia?

Tips coming up soon in an updated version of this article.

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Why Are We pretending?

When will we stop pretending?

When are we going to take responsibility for what is happening in our own backyard?

When will we address the violence we have taught our children?

Why do we pretend like these children just fell from the sky?

Why can’t we see that it could be you tomorrow sleeping in a pool of blood?

Why are we becoming increasingly selfish?

Why can’t we even practice what we preach?

Something is really wrong somewhere and we need a wind of glory.

It starts with you, today.

P.S Guns don’t kill people, people kill people.


The horror.

What horror means to us will differ depending on just how much horror life has showed us already.

What frightens me may be nothing to the next person. This in no way means the next person is stronger than I am.

Life deals us different cards and different options.

No two people have the same story.

So, whats my point?

Don’t judge someone’s strength in life based on the chapter of their life you walked in on.

Also, don’t judge someone’s choices, without knowing the options they had to choose from.