You Are My Answered Prayer, My Love …

You are my Answered Prayer, My Love.
A Poetry of love , dedicated to my awesome Husband on his birthday .

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Be Bold..Be Strong – it doesn’t matter whether Man or Woman !!

Be Bold..Be Strong – it doesn’t matter whether Man or Woman !!

If you want to be the Queen of your husband’s house, let him be the King.

Don’t raise your daughters like your sons. Womanhood has it’s own beauty.

If you are the princess of your father, your man is also the prince of his parents. So don’t expect him to tolerate all your stupidities.

Work hard, lift weight, do your tasks alone, gain knowledge about more and more fields, walk alone with confidence and push your limits. Don’t beg for the equality, establish it.

It’s not always the men’s duty to leave seat for a senior citizen. As a woman too, you can give your seat to a senior citizen; If you can tolerate menstruation and pregnancy then traveling uncomfortably in a crowded public transport becomes a very minute problem.

Don’t create a hell for other women around you. Love your mother-in-law and treat your daughters-in-law like your own daughters.

Don’t label a woman with simple clothes as ‘behenji’. Western clothes don’t make you superior.

If wearing shorts is a choice then wearing Burqa/Saree/Hijab/Salwar suit can also be a choice.. Stop judging others by looking at their appearance.

You are strong enough to hold your bags and walk in a sunny day. Don’t behave like a touch-me-not.

If you can earn money then you can spend it too. Don’t depend on your husband or boyfriend to pay all your bills. He is not an ATM.

Your knowledge of brands doesn’t make you modern, but your education does.

Fair skin is not a privilege but the intellect is.

Rather than being a wife of some rich man, you can be a sportsperson, a writer, a doctor, an engineer, businesswoman and what not!

Boldness is more beautiful than the beauty… So be strong, be bold ….it doesn’t matter whether you are a Man or  a Woman 💖

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My Life..My Choices..My Mistakes..My Lessons….

People are so intelligent these days…I am hearing things about me..I didn’t even know 😃

There is no need to call a person fat;

Have you ever seen the curve of her Smile?

Yes…if Size “0” is sexy then Size “00” should be double sexy !!

Look at her smiling cheeks when they turn into a tomato 🍅

You will fall in love ♥️ when you look at the way she Smiles 😍

Yes…being fat is Sexier…stay happy and healthy…

In this World of “bom diggy bom” be someone’s “tujhe dekha tho yeh jaana sanam”

My Life..My Choices..My Mistakes..My Lessons…. not your business…so just mind your own problems before you talk about mine…My Life is Not Your Story to Tell….

Beautiful Insights….

Lifestyle is not a competition and there are different ways to get a lot of things done, different lanes all leading to the same destination. Just because your neighbour is doing things faster does not mean you are failing.

  • You were born in a first class hospital, I was delivered at home, we both survived.
  • You went to a private primary school and I went to a public school, we both ended in the same high school.
  • You woke up from the bed and I woke from the floor, we both had a peaceful night rest.
  • Your outfits are all expensive, mine are all simple and cheap, we both still cover our nakedness.
  • You ate fried rice and roasted chicken, I ate local made food but we both still ate to our satisfaction.
  • You ride on Lexus jeep, Range Rover, G Wagon, Hummer Jeep and I use public transport but we still got to our various destination.
  • You may be reading this post from your Sony xperia, BB Z10, Q10, Samsung Galaxy 6edge, IPhone6+ and I typed it with my Touch one broken screen, we still see the message.

Happiness doesn’t come from having everything, but making the best out of what you have, it’s all about how you see yourself.

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Happiness is not having what you like. Happiness is liking what you have and being content…

Courtesy says :
You must never ask a woman her age and a man his salary..   Do you know why, Have you ever thought about it..

Well here is a beautiful insight…

It is wrong to ask a woman her age because she hardly ever lives for herself !!

And it is wrong to ask a man his salary because he hardly ever spends on himself !!

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Wisdom Vs Intelligence !!

Curiosity, interest, initiative & exertion leads to “Learning”, which helps to use his “Intelligence” for understanding, analysis & interpretation to acquire “Knowledge”. If he uses his intelligence in applying the knowledge at correct time & place, using discretion, to right people or thing , for maximum advantage & meaningful expression or result, will indicate “Wisdom”.

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few practical illustrations

Example 1. An ant, being a less intelligent creature or specie, starts from it’s home, travels a long distance, picks up the food, returns to home with it’s God given intelligence & is wise to fulfill it’s objective. Human type of intelligence is not required for the ant for it’s purpose.

Example 2. A boy has curiosity to know about cycling, so that he can benefit, going to the school by bicycle. Mere curiosity does not help. He must show interest, take initiative & exert himself to “Learn”. He should apply his mind & have keen observation, understanding, analyzing & interpreting different sequences & techniques of learning, using his “Intelligence”. This leads to acquisition of “Knowledge” of cycling. Once he acquires his knowledge, he has to apply it practically. His “Wisdom” now suggests, how “intelligently” he should apply his Knowledge “Wisely”, for practical utility. If he rides the bicycle in rough roads, full of sand, mud & stone pebbles, the life of the bicycle will become short, necessitating frequent maintenance, added to the inconvenience of riding. His “Wisdom” should select the appropriate road for joyful riding with minimum of wear & tear of the bicycle, at the same time, reducing the travel time.

Example 3. Any Nation progressing very intelligently, can amass highly sophisticated weapons of war, but if “Wisdom” is not used, any silly reason can ruin the country, it’s assets & properties & taking the lives of millions of innocent people, who are building the Nation for centuries of growth & prosperity. Miscalculated “Wisdom” can bring in “Self Ruin”.

Formula for progress would be :   CURIOSITY—->INTEREST—->INITIATIVE—->EXERTION—->LEARNING→->INTELLIGENCE—->KNOWLEDGE—->WISDOM.

 Intelligence and Wisdom are two qualities that are attached with the mental capabilities and skills of human beings. There are many points which create a few difference between these similar terms.

Found some interesting differences between Intelligence and Wisdom; Enjoy reading and analyzing them !!!!

Intelligence leads to arguments.
Wisdom leads to settlements.

Intelligence is power of will.
Wisdom is power OVER will.

Intelligence is heat, it burns.
Wisdom is warmth, it comforts.

Intelligence is pursuit of knowledge, it tires the seeker.
Wisdom is pursuit of truth, it inspires the seeker.

Intelligence is holding on.
Wisdom is letting go.

Intelligence leads you.
Wisdom guides you.

An intelligent man thinks he knows everything.
A wise man knows that there is still something to learn.

An intelligent man always tries to prove his point.
A wise man knows there really is no point.

An intelligent man freely gives unsolicited advice.
A wise man keeps his counsel until all options are considered.

An intelligent man understands what is being said.
A wise man understands what is left unsaid.

An intelligent man speaks when he has to say something.
A wise man speaks when he has something to say.

An intelligent man sees everything as relative.
A wise man sees everything as related.

An intelligent man tries to control the mass flow.
A wise man navigates the mass flow.

An intelligent man preaches.
A wise man reaches.

Finally, conclude : 

Intelligence is good
but Wisdom achieves better results.

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