True love story

There’s so much going on,

But I stay strong,

There’s many doubters,

And a few who hold on,

Don’t listen to the rumors,

You know we have special bond,

I keep watching myself in the mirror,

Waiting for you to call my phone,

This is like Romeo and Juliet,

A true love story,

I keep reminiscing about how we first met,

From zero to glory,

That’s how I felt,

I became a person with no worries,

I still am,

No reason to hurry,

I am no longer in quicksand,

There is a lion inside,

Everytime I think of you I roar,

Coming home from a workout,

My body is sore,

You are at my core,

I keep wanting more,

It’s like it’s new all over again,

You are my best friend,

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Complex over dark complexion

Complex over dark complexion

“God doesn’t Judge Dark Skin,He judges Dark Hearts”         Godstillspeaks.com

It’s a 2.8 minute read.

Why would any one wants to change their God given darker shade skin to nothing less than whitest ?

I have no idea about other non white country people,but in India it’s a different thing.

Famously it is said that Indians are fascinated by 3Gs- Ganga ( River Ganges ), Gandhi ( father of the nation ) and Gora ( means fair skinned ).

Fair skin appears to be India’s psyche.Many believe,India getting colonized for centuries by the fair skin invaders is the root cause,resulting in the inferiority complex.

Being born in India with dark complexion is highly disadvantageous more so if you are a girl.

If you come across matrimonial or TV advertisements or Bollywood,company interviews….. as far as selection of the candidate is concerned,preference is given to fair skinned people.Dark complexion kids are bullied with nicknames in the school life.

So to survive the rat race, you must have a whitened skin or white washed skin.

What choices you can have ?

On a lighter note it is said two choices are available..
Either you DIE ( Indian woman kills herself over ‘dark complexion taunts’ A tragic and sad decision) or DYE.

In Dye option. the fairness cream comes to your rescue.

Dark Complexion

No surprise India’s Skin lightening industry is said to be more than half a billion dollar industry.Men too started grooming with these products.

Why Lighter skin is preferred ?

Personally I feel it’s nothing but obsession.
Some of the reasons given by the people.

  • Lighter skin gives you a feeling of higher social class !
  • Fair skin tells the persons worth !
  • Advantage of getting married without hassles !
  • No need to beg for respect !
  • Can get roles easily in movies & advertisements !
  • Better career prospects !
  • Fair skin people are more attractive !
  • More confidence !
  • Cynosure of all eyes !

What is the Psychology of having dark complexion ?

  • Less attractive
  • said to be of low intelligence
  • leads unsuccessful life
  • Perceived as a negative personality
  • Subject of discrimination
  • Negative emotions
  • Judged as unfriendly even of doubtful credentials.

I don’t know from where the hell they get these thoughts.

Are there any side effects of the Skin Fairness products ?

Skin fairness products contain the following ingredients.A kind of toxic cocktail.

1. Hydro quinone. 2.Steroids.3.Mercury.4.Lead.5.Chromium.

These can cause irritation,inflammation,infection,scarring,liver & kidney failures,Skin cancer,Brain damage on prolonged usage.

Please share your thoughts .

Thank you.
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but the Bean could never split

Robustly rattling the shell,
i was gravely biding
for the groaning cracks
to surface the crust
but the Bean could never split.

A layer of tar
despised the Bean
swelling the germ
and softening the shell
with the molten fury
but the Bean could never split.

Thriving for germination,
my echo strikingly reverberated
within the caliginous tunnel,
screeching for the shell to break
but the Bean could never split.

Congested damp clogged the pores,
barring the seed from rooting
in the milieu of growth,
while i redundantly reiterated
to clear the illusion
but the Bean could never split.

The baggage of throes
coated the fettered seed
with aches forcing it to wobble,
when i finally hammered out the shell
and there lay the seed deceased,
thus how could the Bean split?

Video: Five Fears My Blindness Augments

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Five Fears My Blindness Augments

We all fear something. These are five of mine, some silly, some deep, that are augmented by my blindness. I don’t see this as a negative topic, merely a matter of fact one. Sometimes blindness really isn’t an asset. But facing those times makes us strong.

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Ten Reasons Why I Love Being A Mom. Happy Mother’s Day!

Happy mother’s day to all the beautiful moms out there!

While there are countless reasons why being a mom is incredible, these are ten of my favorites. More about motherhood than about blindness, this video goes out to all you beautiful moms out there. Keep doing what you’re doing, because you, my lovelies, kick some major awesome woman butt.

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Sacrifice

Sacrifice is the mother of everything.

Without sacrifice, you can’t get what you want in your life.

Your success always demands great sacrifice from you.

Are you ready for that?

Ask yourself.

Then you’ll know how to sacrifice in your life.

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Struggle

Life is all about struggle.

You never live without struggle.

Life begins with a struggle.

Life ends with a struggle.

Struggle is the part of our life.

A mother struggles to give birth to her child.

Every living creature struggles for survival.

Struggle is the rule of life.

If you struggle to get something today,

Tomorrow or in your near future, you’ll receive your grand rewards.

Don’t scare to struggle.

Enjoy your struggle and hug it like your true pal.

Your grand success and victory is always waiting for you.

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How to move from negative thoughts to positive ones?

Hi friends,

How are you all doing? Hope the reading is going great. I have been reading some really good books from the beginning of this year.

I am planning to re-read some of the other books I have read long back to see how much progress I have made in terms of my thought pattern.

A few days back, I was a bit restless thinking about the things that I had wanted to achieve and the reality of what I had achieved. I felt like a failure (every now and then I get these thoughts though I am not actually a failure). Such thoughts just kept adding up and I couldn’t control myself from the emotional struggle. I knew that it was not helping me in any way.

I know that like attracts like and I could see that it was happening. On one negative thought, other similar thoughts kept adding up.

The negative thoughts kept adding up one after another till I reached a point (the tipping point) where there were no more negative thoughts and my mind went blank (i.e. a slack moment) after which the opposite started happening.

In that one slack moment, a thought came into my mind that there was nothing that I could do in that particular moment other than to accept my present situation with all my heart. The next moment, I got some strength.

Then, I got a second thought that the negative situation won’t last long and I felt even better. Then I got the thought that things would only get better from there and I felt even better. Then I got a thought that I already had so many good things in my life for which I should be grateful and this made me feel even better.

Thus, the positive thoughts kept adding up until I reached a point where I once again began to dream and visualize about my goals as already manifested and felt really happy about them.

I know it was my intuition that was guiding me (at that slack moment) because those positive thoughts came from somewhere deep inside me. I knew I had to have faith and surrender.

And that’s when I learned the process to convert a negative thought into a positive one. The trick is

  1. If you get worried about certain issues, let those thoughts flow (i.e. don’t fight those negative thoughts because that will only aggravate the situation). It is okay to get negative thoughts, it’s just not okay to dwell in those thoughts for long.
  2. The thoughts may keep adding up to a point (I call the tipping point) where you would no longer get any negative thoughts. In fact, at that point, your mind will be exhausted with all the negativity and so it will be blank for a few seconds (I call the slack moment).
  3. In that slack moment, small positive thoughts will start popping up. They will make you realize that you cannot do anything in the present to change your negative situation and that worrying will only worsen the situation. It will ask you to be grateful for all the things you already have in your life.
  4. Use these opportunities (slack moments) to turn the tide in your favor and see the magic happening. You will notice how in a matter of a few seconds you move from being in a negative mood into a neutral mood.
  5. Once you are in a neutral mood, do things that you love to do or things that you are passionate about. This will give you a lot of positivity and take you into the frequency of receiving.
  6. When you vibrate at the frequency of receiving, you visualize your goals and dreams as already achieved, feel happy as if you have already achieved them and eventually manifest them.

It is very normal to feel worried about our goals and the way our lives are going.  The important thing is not to give up based on this worry.

Instead, we need to accept that every now and then it is normal to have worries or negative thoughts and we need to learn to let them pass. If we try to fight them, they will make the problems and negative situations look bigger, but if we let them pass, by not giving them enough attention, they will reduce in size and eventually fade away.

They will be replaced by positive thoughts and this, in turn, will help us in manifesting our dreams and goals.

There are many external things like music, dance, a hobby etc… that you can use to change your mood from negative to positive but they may not be always available. So we must learn to move from negativity to positivity on our own (i.e. using the guidance of our intuition) as well.

Let me know how do you come out of your negative emotions. I would love to know other alternate methods as well.

Love,

Rashmi

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