Can you prepare your child for a great future? Is there anything you can do so that your child becomes a great person in life?
The answer is yes.
I just saw a video of a kid of about five years imitating the cerebration of Mass as a Catholic priest does in the Catholic Church.
It was amazing because he was perfect. The Christians of his community were there and played the part of the congregation as in a real Catholic Mass.
I felt so impressed by the seriousness of all the actors. It reminded me of the first Archbishop of my Archdiocese. As the story goes, when he was a kid, he used to gather his school mates and celebrate Mass just like the kid in the video.
He grew up not only to be a priest but a great priest; in fact an Archbishop.
In educational psychology we learned that the child is the father of the man. This means what we learn as kids determines the type of adults we become.
Wise parents take time to nurture their children and prepare them for success. Many of the delinquent acts we experience in our society are the result of the inability of many parents to nurture their progeny as they should.
Proper child upbringing is very important. Good parenting will produce successful people in society.
What type of parent are you? How are you bringing up your kid or kids? Are you getting them ready for outstanding success? What you want your children to become, you must start preparing them for it in their childhood.
a beautiful winter morning! A gentle breeze is just enough to keep the fire I
started lit this morning. I gathered sticks from the woods – the memories of
life which once lived on the trees. Now they lie dead beneath the autumn foliage.
It’s a somber reminder life is so precious and short for God’s creations.
feel so incredibly blessed this holiday season. It’s just around the corner,
and God’s fulfillment of promises fill the air. But a thought haunts my mind…
all the children who are less fortunate than I at Christmastime. My childhood
was full of unexpected events, too, such as divorce and death. So, when I was
asked to write this blog, I gladly accepted the challenge.
children have no say of their ill-fated direction in life. They become victims of
yet another divorce and single parenting. Even worse is the loss of a parent
during the holiday season. Once upon a time, I had a classmate who faced this
Christmas trimmings lined the streets, and window displays were in full swing with animated characters warming the hearts of little children. An older brother told this young girl the cause of her parent’s separation “was all her fault.” At five years old, such a cruel statement was a bit much to bear for her little shoulders.
Christmas, her mother suddenly passed away. Many questions went unanswered… this
precious child only knew her mommy went to heaven. Instead of anticipating the thrill of a Christmas
morning, the little girl faced the world with a broken heart and fear of her
future. Dare I say, as an adult, Christmas is a difficult time for her; fifty
years later, the callous statement still lingers in the back of her mind.
There are seventy-four million children in the United States, and the divorce rate is 40-50 percent amongst marriages. So, the bigger question is, how do we help the afflicted youngsters during the holidays, carrying the burden of their parents’ selfishness? A family life of morals used to be respected, a flourishing way of life. What happened to these generations? Children, who never witness the truth about a love between parents, suffer voids in their little hearts.
Regardless of the circumstances, kids should have a Christmas. This joyful day is a celebration of our Savior’s arrival to earth. But, amidst the hustle and bustle, we should encourage the children to grieve – it’s ok! Support their thoughts and questions to ease their anxiety. Encourage simple ceremonies, such as lighting a Christmas candle near the parent’s photo, or placing a picture inside a bulb to hang on the tree. Wrap up a special gift for the child with a photograph of their parent. Create a special “memory” tree with ornaments that reflect the loved one’s life, or make a donation in their memory to a favorite charity.
organizations and charities assist children during the Christmas holidays. Some
top names include Toys for Tots, Operation Christmas Child, Make-A-Wish
Foundation, Angel Tree, the Salvation Army, and the Christmas Spirit
Foundation. The Lord gives us instructions to help those in need.
pass like dust left upon a shelf, and grief leaves an imprint on the heart. Begotten memories, entombed in the body of a
child, are reminders of Christmases tainted by disaster and hurt. Let us teach
the suffering children that God is our only hope in life. His strength will
help us endure the pain and strife of a world destroyed by sinners.
Children are a heritage from the
Lord, offspring a reward from him. Like arrows in the hands of a warrior are
children born in one’s youth. Blessed is the man whose quiver is full of them.
They will not be put to shame when they contend with their opponents in court.
— Psalm 127:3-5
As for the little girl whom I wrote about today, she joined her siblings and grew up in a blended family. But, just as her life settled into normalcy, her father quietly slipped away, too. Behold, an angel came to the rescue – her “stepmother.” Retrieving all the broken branches which laid in pieces on the ground, this special woman raised my friend to the beautiful lady and fellow author she is today. She was one of the lucky survivors! This is proof our Father’s power can conquer the hearts of the unknowing and replenish the trees.
with Christmas just three days away, will you consider supporting a child’s
organization or adopting a child for Christmas? Spend time with a mourning
child and make the holiday one they will always remember, away from pain.
I’ll light a candle this Christmas in memory of all the innocent little children who are missing a parent. God bless you all, but especially… God bless my sweet friend!
Have a very Merry Christmas!
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The time you spend With your children, To help them become Good children, And grow up into Good adults, Is time well spent; They need you, To be there To guide them; If you aren’t there, They may miss their way; So easy it is For them To go astray. So if you are serious, Be there.
Ten Reasons Why I Love Being A Mom. Happy Mother’s Day!
Happy mother’s day to all the beautiful moms out there!
While there are countless reasons why being a mom is incredible, these are ten of my favorites. More about motherhood than about blindness, this video goes out to all you beautiful moms out there. Keep doing what you’re doing, because you, my lovelies, kick some major awesome woman butt.
under the cross motionless and watched her son’s holy blood dripping upon her
feet. Bitterness and tremendous grief overwhelmed her soul while she stayed
with Him until the last minute. The reverence of heaven exists as we can only
imagine what it’s like to witness your child brutally crucified at the hands of
haters. But, Mary, according to scriptures, remained passive and resisted the
temptation to protest the unfairness of Jesus’ prosecution.
often said there is nothing worse than outliving your child. I can attest to this
as I watched my grandmother sob while her son laid dying on a hospital bed. I
can only imagine Mary’s anguish as she witnessed the excruciating pain Jesus
suffered from the stakes in His feet and hands. In her glorious strength,
still, Mary fought off her own inhibitions to be first, a mother. She knew she
would make the ultimate sacrifice when she accepted God’s invitation to give
birth to a Savior for Simeon warned her of Jesus’ fate.
the quintessence of faith in God. As an inexperienced, pregnant mother, she knew
the truth about her son’s existence. It was her destiny to deliver a child who
would save the world. Throughout Jesus’ life, Mary often feared for her son’s
life, but her intuition spoke He was in God’s hands. However, on Good Friday,
she must have questioned why Jesus was sent to earth to save sinners, only to
be killed by them. I’m sure she also wasn’t prepared for the method of His
my observation, though, Mary is to be the ultimate example of strength for
parents who lose their child to senseless religious crimes. When we defend our
Creator, it becomes a movement towards the only ray of light which exists in this
world’s darkness. We stand under the cross to eliminate chaos and bitterness, spreading
the love of God. How can it be wrong?
could have easily fallen into the trap of screaming and attacking evil-doers at
the presence of Jesus’s injustice. But, she walked with loyalty to the Lord in
gentleness, forgiveness, and peace.
being justified by faith, we have peace with God through our Lord Jesus Christ”
a model of discipleship Mary portrays to Christians today! Let us stand in
strength, under the weight of the cross, and resist the shadows of evil.
How are you today? Let me begin this letter with a quote that was in my last letter. Because of its importance I like us to revisit it. Do you remember that quote? It goes thus: “In life, the most successful people are not those who focus on where they are coming from but those who focus on where they are going.” Romilia Quotes I hope you remember the story of Nchang Belta.
In my last letter I told you the challenges that she faced and how she was able to bravely overvome them and emerge on top in life. What makes me so impressed by Belta’s achievement is the fact that she created her opportunity and made excellent use of it. Many girls have opportunities but waste them either through carelessness, laziness, or recklessness. We find girls whose parents send them to excellent and expensive schools but who still end up failing in end-of-course examinations and in life. This is a pity.
My advice to you, which I have given to all young people I have met is, learn to use your opportunities. Do not waste them.
I like you to take responsibility for your life. Take responsibility for what you become. Like Nchang Belta, pave your way to where you like to be. Know that you can get to any position, and I mean any position you choose, if you are determined enough and work hard.
Always bear in mind that life is not easy. There is tough competition everywhere. Before you become somebody, you must work very hard. Do not think that you can fold your arms and sit and just become rich, great, or outstanding. Far from it. Nothing worthwhile it is said, comes easily in life. There is no free lunch in this world. You have to gird your loins and work for your success.
As you pave your way through life, take note that there are many obstacles or setbacks to overcome. As you shall be struggling to grow, there will be people who shall try to do everything to put you down or to block you. You must make sure you avoid or skip the pitholes that you shall find on your way. Some of these pitholes will be very obvious; others shall not be. In fact, many will be invisible. Hence, you must be very careful otherwise what you may consider safe ground may be the most slippery ground and when you step on it you will find yourself crashing badly. You will come across people who will love you and help you succeed; and others who will hate you and try to throw banana peelings on your path. You will come across those who will deceive. Know how to go about life.
Do not let jealous and envious fellows stop you from getting to where you want to go. Do not let people with bad intentions block you. Do not listen to people who have nothing but discouraging messages for you. Be wise and smart and know that this world is not for the naive, or sluggish individuals but for wise and courageous ones.
You are still young and your future is ahead of you. You have great chances. Make the most of your opportunities.
It is my prayer that God may continue to take care of you. I hope to read from you soon. Until then, this is your darling father.
My daughter’s sixth birthday was on the thirteenth, and Christmas is cruising in hard and fast. For me, this time of year involves a lot of present wrapping. When I mention this to sighted individuals, some of the questions and comments I get every year without fail are:
Do you have someone wrap them for you?
But you don’t wrap them yourself, do you?
I know (insert store name here) has gift wrapping services for a really good deal around this time of year! That would be perfect for you!
You must need so much help getting ready!
I’ve actually got it covered, guys, and today’s post is to show you how I do it. I’m sorry I couldn’t do a Youtube video about this, but that would require a second person to zoom in at the proper angles and I just don’t have a second person I can bribe into doing it right now.