Transforming your mind

Positivity, to me, isn’t about getting rid of your negative emotions,

Sure, you don’t want to feel sad all the time,

It’s good to try to see things in different light,

But positivity is more about having a bright view of life,

Although you encounter trouble,

It’s all about accepting the world as it is,

It’s not like the positive people,

Are happy all the time,

No, but they rather focus on the bright side of life,

Therefore, a positive person will begin feeling better,

Much better than a person who only see the negative side of it,

So, with this in mind, we should all try to change our mindset a little,

When you encounter difficulties don’t quit!

And don’t say “I’ll do it, but it won’t go well”,

Because it won’t, if you have that attitude,

Positivity means doing things with the expectation of it working out fine,

If you are perfectionistic, like me, you don’t want to fail,

Because that may say something about your skill level,

This is a negative view on the things you do,

Because if you live your whole life trying to do everything perfect,

You won’t experience failure, and failure is a big part of life,

Without failure you won’t grow,

It’s also very ineffective to try to make things perfect, because it never will be perfect,

Sometimes you have to be satisfied with what you have done,

Otherwise you will fall into the trap of becoming self-conscious,

And this brings a lot of stress and other negative emotions,

By being positive you realize that failure is a possibility,

You also look more at the big picture of things and don’t get caught up in the details,

If you want to make that transformation, believe that you can do it,

Feel it inside you and act on it,

Life is a process so don’t be discourage if you don’t get it at first,

Remember, nobody is perfect,

Still, if you stay conscious of your thoughts and actions,

You will eventually realize who you want to be,





Source of my Joy

How so caring you are!
So nice, so sweet;
So full of love;
To know that you are there
Just for me,
Is the source
Of my Joy.

Burning fire of love

With this fire of love
Burning in my yeart
For you,
No distance will keep you
Away from me;
If you are across the ocean,
I am coming;
I will get to you;
If I do not find a ship
To sail me across;
Nor a plane to fly me over,
All I know is I am coming;
I will find you;
And take you in my arms;
And your warmth, I will enjoy;
No storm will frighten me;
I will swim across the ocean
Till I get to you;
And should the storms sweep
Me off to eternity,
There, I will wait for you;
Can you have a feel
Of the depth of my love?
It is as deep as the ocean;
And burns like a furnace;
Only you can put out
This fierce fire of love
Threatening to lose control
And cause damage
That will be hard to repair.

Allen’s soliloquy 

Shall we not change the world like Michael inspired? 

It is no war; we want to love, 

Some offer greed, some, envy, 

But what I have to offer is charity. 

Is not my own divine? 

These I say; a plea role I play. 

Renovate our home so there won’t be an end me or ye. 

The creator put us here to make an abode, 

An abode of dignity to share, 

Not one of dignity that’s sheer. 

Should there be a diaspora between me and the mob? 

But as it is, there is no place like home and no mortal is an island. 

O! To me, it is like a die in “must”

But to live, I can. 

Therein, I utter my say:

This is a mad war, 

This is a mad world, 

This is a mad house. 

I will muse no more. 


Do you ever get those days of nostalgia when you just tell yourself all this suffering through life is pointless?

We are just existing in space, nobody knows for sure where we are from or where we are going to.

Today I feel like I have ants under my sheets.

Like there is something I need to do but I can’t put my finger on it.

Like there is still so much to be done, but so little time.

Do you get these days?

How can we overcome nostalgia?

Tips coming up soon in an updated version of this article.

  • J

Drop the lash


I have been kind,

I have been a blessing,

I have been a wonder woman,

Drop the lash.

You asked for coupling,

I gave you more,

You asked for a house,

I gave you a home,

You were staving,

I gave you food.

You keep tearing me apart,

I can’t take anymore,

Remember those walls we’ve built,

Don’t turn them down.

World Marriage Day

Are you aware
Of this day?
Are you celebrating
This day?
It’s World Marriage Day;
A day for couples
To celebrate marriage;
To celebrate two becoming one;
To celebrate unconditional love;
It is a day
For couples around the world;
Wherever you are,
If you are married,
This is your day to celebrate
Your love;
Do something with your spouse;
Why not with other couples?
Celebrate marriage;
The foundation of society;
If marriages are happy,
We will have a good society.
When marriages are sad
Of course,
We have a gloomy society.
Let’s celebrate marriage;
Above all,
Let’s work for the success
Of our marriage.