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Being a woman means being strong, because you will find that your womanhood will need that strength, and when you let it, sometimes that strength will even find you. When you are a woman, you take the responsibility for your life and for what you want from that life…
“A Woman – She is like a surface of glass, transparent that you can see inside. The more you wipe it gently, the more it will shine , and You can see Your reflection on it, as if the woman is preserving your image inside of her shyly. If You break it one day, it will be so hard for you to collect its shattered pieces again. If you did collect them to stick them, it won’t be back to the way it was… It will always be disfigured. Every time you shall pass your hand on the fractured zones “scars” You will hurt your hand.”
Sharing below the Journey of a Girl… a Woman… a Female !!
A girl, with cheerfulness Went into silence; There was No, anguish no pain;
But still she was a victim of many men’s foul play
Some offered her friendship, Some offered her secrecy of a close relationship
Some offered her, time to time medicines of “Hello” “Hi” ; And expected her to dance to their tunes With a similar rhyme
Some offered her, good time, only till they could find a next one; While Some offered her, (…………), fill whatever you can without any hesitation
She was one, but she was with so many people,
She became many Life s at the same time,
Living various characters, with them
And then ultimately forgot who she was in a real sense
She wasn’t wrong, she wasn’t right too
She just wanted to walk in the field of success
Without knowing the path, and for this reason alone,
she gave useless attention to many cheap passers-by
Is this a lesson learnt ??? or is it just another story of a woman and her shades while she moves towards her final destination.. and her life journey not to be made public anymore yet…
The respect of women in Indian culture has been given great importance. There is a verse in Sanskrit- ‘यस्य पूज्यंते नार्यस्तु तत्र रमन्ते देवता:। That is, where the worship of women is done, the deities reside there. But in the present circumstances, women are being insulted everywhere. By treating him as the “thing of enjoyment”, the man is ‘using’ his way. This is a very worrying thing. But considering how to respect women, while maintaining our culture, it is necessary to consider it.
Mother always be respected
Mother is mother in the form of mother, in her most holistic form on earth. Mother mother Mother is considered to be more than God, because God’s birthdate has also been a woman. In the context of Mother Devaki (Krishna) and mother Parvati (Ganpati / Kartikeya) we can see it.
But in the changing times, the children have reduced the importance of their mother. This is a worrisome aspect. All are being immersed in wealth and self-interest. But in the form of a mother giving birth, women should be respected, which has been reduced in the present, this question is being spreading four times like the questionnaire nowadays. The new generation should observe about this.
Girls are stabbing
If we look at girls nowadays, we find that these girls are fighting a lot nowadays. They can be seen moving forward in every field. Girls are moving fast in the merit list of various examinations. At some point they were considered weak, but they have earned proficiency in every field on the strength of their hard work and intellectual power. This talent should be respected.
All the life of women passes through the shoulder joint with the man. His childhood passes first in the umbrella of the father. Even in the father’s house, he has to do the work of the house and also continue his studies. This sequence continues till marriage.
During this time, the dual responsibilities of study and writing along with the work of the house have to be done, whereas during this time there is no other work than boys. Some newcomers do not even study properly, while they do not have any other work. From this point of view, the woman always walks with the shoulders on the shoulders, but also discharges more responsibilities from them. Woman is also respectable in this way.
After marriage, more and more responsibilities come to women. After the service of husband, father-in-law, devar-nunad, they did not have the time for themselves. They keep the crusher bulls maninde in the house-family. After the birth of a child, his responsibility increases even more. When the life of a common woman passes in the house-family, chowk-stove, it is not known. Many times they strangle their arrows too, for the sake of family and family. They do not get enough time too, they live for themselves too. Indian women are at the forefront of making their own home for the sake of family. His sacrifice for the family makes him respectful.
It is done by women in the form of a mother to perform rites in children. All of us have been listening since childhood that the mother of the children is the first master. The personality of the mother has both positive and negative effects on the children.
Taking the history, Mother Putlibai gave birth to great sanskar in Gandhiji and Jijabai Shivaji Maharaj. The result of which is that even today we know Shivaji Maharaj and Gandhiji due to his excellent deeds. His personality is vast and unique. By giving better rites, the child can make example in society, women can do the same. Hence the woman is honorable.
Culmination of indecency
Nowadays women are getting the closeness of indecency. Every day I read and read in newspapers and news channels, that women were tampered with or gang rape were done. It will be called moral decline. There is hardly any day when there is no news on the indecency done with women.
What is the reason? Day-to-day pornography is increasing in print and electronic media. It has a very bad effect on the mind-brain of the young man. They start thinking about its implementation. The result is a heinous and abominable crime like Delhi gangrape. It is important to consider the honor of women and to protect her identity, it is also important to protect her honor and identity.
Clothing is also a reason
Some ‘modern’ women’s attire does not even make sense. Sex is increasing due to these garments too. These women are thought of in a different way. They think we are modern. This idea can not be called fair. This crime can not emerge from the fact that due to their clothes, this crime has been inspired.
Some famous women like Goddess Ahilyabai Holkar, Mother Teresa, Ela Bhatt, Mahadevi Verma, Rajkumari Amrit Kaur, Aruna Asaf Ali, Sucheta Kripalani and Kasturba Gandhi etc. have illuminated their name in all the world by their word of mouth and action. Kasturba Gandhi played an important role in liberating the country by joining the shoulder of Mahatma Gandhi with his left shoulder.
Indira Gandhi has influenced India and world politics on the strength of her determination. They are not called iron-men. Indira Gandhi did not lose heart despite the demise of father, husband and a son. Like a rugged rock, he worked in his karmakashetra. Former US President Ronald Reagan used to call him ‘clever woman’, because Indiraji was also fluent in politics with speech and tactics.
In the end…
In the end, we would be right to say that we respect every woman. As a result of not understanding the neglect of female feticide and the importance of women, the number of women is not even half as compared to men. Humans should not forget that only after being given birth by the woman, she has found existence in the world and has reached here. Denying or insulting it is not right. In Indian culture, due to reasonably respect given to Goddesses, Durga and Lakshmi etc., it should be given proper respect.
In Love with a Married Man… an imaginary letter from the Lover to the Wife (Written from the point of view of the “other woman”) !!
The deep understanding we share, the uninhibited laughter, the common interests – when was the last time you experienced any of that? Because if you can’t remember any of those feelings, surely you must forgive me. You may have been married for 15 years, and I have been your husband’s lover for just six months. You have been to places together, created a home and raising children together. I admire your attention to your personal details – your job, your body shaping and beauty enhancements. You are passionate about cleanliness, endlessly exhorting house-maid to keep the washed plates on the right side of the platform and not inside the drawers. How do I know all these things?
Dear wife of my beloved lover!! If you think that you are so perfect and so is your marriage, well what is your husband doing with me in the first place? I respect the institution of marriage very much but I respect love more!! I do not expect society to accept something as twisted as a love affair.
I understand that having an affair with a married man is not ‘ethically or morally right’, but is this right that the entire society, including you – blame only me? You accuse me of trapping and misguiding your husband. What is he, a child? He is grown up, married, mature. If despite all this, he was drawn towards me and I did not resist, how come when it comes down to the verdict of the greatly ethical society or you – why it is only me who is wrong? Doesn’t a relationship involve two people?
Your husband, the man who does all your shopping, is the father of your children, who runs your house, fulfills all your and your family’s desires, who couriers the medicines that your ailing parents requires, and who loves me passionately too. What is stronger – 15 years of togetherness, or six months of passion?
Do you ever look at him with the same passion as I do? Do you have any idea of the drowsy sensual late-night conversations we both have from our respective beds? “I love you and I want you so badly,” he says. He adores the way I keep my hair natural, all in waves. He loves the way I stay away from all the gyms you go to, the diets you follow. He doesn’t intend to compare, but your obsession with keeping yourself fit and attractive and hence avoiding the crazy ways he wants to be intimate in – turns him off. My carefree nature and cravings for his love bites makes him feel alive with lust and desire.
But do you think I can have it all? No, I still want so much more. I envy you so much – not because you stay together in the same home and share everything. But wanting to do the small day-to-day routine things with him – like smelling his body odour before tossing his clothes for washing, holding his hand at a social gathering, cooking for him on a weekend… things that you probably take for granted. I struggle to come to terms with the fact that he makes stringent efforts to keep me at a distance and fights the feelings that he has for me.
But dear lady, forgive me if you ever come to know about us.
I’m glad that you will never see this letter… You need not know that he texts me first thing in the morning and converses with me the last thing at night before he sleeps. Those are the tiny bits and pieces of him that I have and I have learned to live with them.
I love him and I love him like crazy, because he loves me back! There was no reason for not loving him, he seemed to be perfect for me from the day we began a relationship. I could have stopped myself from getting closer to him knowing that he was married and had a family. But sometimes some things are just meant to happen… I went with my guts. Our small encounters grew into friendship, shared moments, work, pleasure, pain and a whole lot of travelling together. It was feeling very nice to meet him and know him better and closer. I became close to him; we shared a great bond and pulled off into a very close and friendly relationship (maybe a little more than friendship). Till then it was not a committed love, but it was not forgettable either.
I anyway do not understand the massive hue and cry on relationships in this country. Isn’t it an organic thing – sometimes marriages work, sometimes they don’t? Why can’t we accept these things naturally and let go of the propaganda behind all this? As a society, we really need to let others be and concentrate on our lives.
Loyalty is great, love is greater and life is short. Let us live and let others live…
When a celebrity walks out of a decades old marriage to marry someone way younger or older – we accept that quite easily… Why does it become so difficult when similar things happen with people we know a little better?
Sometimes a woman cannot resist temptation but having an affair with a married man is always risky…
But I promise, I’m not going to steal him away from you – because deep in my heart I know that he loves you, he respects you… maybe more than me… because you are his wife and will always be his better half !! And yes, I love you too – since we both have a strong emotional connection, where we are mad for the same man… just differently… I am your friend – the Other Woman !!
From planning meals, overseeing domestic chores, keeping the house in order, helping kids with homework, being a sounding board to the family, etc. etc., hands of a house-wife are perpetually full. What we really treasure are the rare moments of peace we manage to find out in our non-stop schedules.
While corporate and other jobs have holidays and weekends, our load increases on these days. Because with others at home, we get busy getting them to enjoy themselves. So we work twice as hard on such holidays!!
To some our job is easy – after all we are just at home, unemployed, lazying about – what can targets and deadlines mean to us? But only we do know the significance of seemingly unimportant tasks like getting hot and delicious meals ready on time, being there for the family when they need us, lending a patient ear to all problems. And while corporate jobs are easily filled with replaceable incumbents, our job is hard to fill up with anyone else but us.
A housewife’s job, as they say, is never done. It goes on 24/7, 365 days a year.
As our designations became glamorized to home-makers from the old term of house-wife, we looked up to some more appreciation of the hard work and sweat we put in to keep our homes functioning smoothly.
But appreciation and acknowledgement are hard to come by, and usually people turn their noses up when they hear you are just a home-maker.
Its only when we are missing in action, do people realize what we do.