How to Discover What You’re Passionate About

A common theme in most writing on goal setting is the need to follow your passions. Do the things that make you want to get up early in the morning. There’s only one thing missing:

What if you don’t have any passions?

I’m sure everyone on this planet has interests. But that’s not the same thing. Enjoying playing video games isn’t the same as spending thousands of hours designing your own. Your passion has to be something you would work exceptionally hard for.

So what do you do, if there is nothing you feel that engaged about?

The Way to Start Isn’t With a Survey…

A lot of career guidance involves measuring your current skills and personality, and then deciding what you would be most suited for. I don’t like this approach because people are complex. And any test will ultimately be a gross simplification of what’s important to you and what you like to do.

I once heard a story about a wealthy woman who was looking for a husband. She invested over $20,000 on a series of psychological surveys to match her with potential candidates. She met individually with the dozen candidates that were her best match. After all that money and effort, she decided she didn’t like any of them.

Six months later, she was engaged to someone she had met randomly at a bar. Moral: people don’t know what they want until they see it (and surveys aren’t much better).

The truth is, I don’t think any questionnaire can tell you what you’re going to be really engaged about. I’d rather experiment with dozens of wildly different activities, than limit my scope, just because a test said I wouldn’t like it.

How to Find Your Passions

The better approach to finding your passions is actually fairly simple:

  1. Try a lot of different things
  2. See what you enjoy

The biggest obstacle to overcome is a narrow vision of what you can do. If I wasn’t passionately interested in anything, I’d try to cast a wide net to look at dozens of different activities. Staying safe and familiar is the reason I’m bored, so now is the time to experiment.

Dabbling is key to the art of finding what drives you. Dabbling means committing to something for 3-6 months. This amount of time isn’t enough to become really good at anything. But it is enough time to get over the sharp learning curve in the beginning.

I didn’t enjoy programming for the first few months I worked on it. I didn’t know enough, and it was too frustrating to continue. But once I got over the frustration barrier, I found that programming is an activity I really enjoy.

If you don’t have any project that makes you want to wake up early and sacrifice leisure for, you should start dabbling. Find new activities completely outside your comfort zone you can do for a few hours a week, and commit for at least two months.

Sometimes You Need a Spark…

Sometimes the problem with a passion isn’t the activity, but the goal. I enjoyed working on small self-made projects. But it wasn’t until I saw that people actually made self-run businesses out of those efforts that I became really engaged. Until that point, my goal was just to dabble in something fun. After that point, I realized there was room for a challenging goal I hadn’t considered before.

Equally important to dabbling in activities is to dabble in experiences. Meet people from weird and unique backgrounds. Read books that don’t normally appear on your shelf. Randomness increases the chance that one of your interests will be sparked into something more.

Always Look for More

Dabbling is a continuous process. Committing yourself to one goal is good. But that should still leave time for brief experiments. If you’re always dabbling, you have a large base of passions you can do interesting work from. Don’t tolerate boredom.

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Amazing traffic co-ordination among the Road users !

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80 die in accident

80 people have died in a ghastly bus accident on the Bafoussam-Yaounde highway. A 70-sitter bus bound for the Western town of Bafoussam clashed head on with another bus with 35 passengers on board coming from the opposite direction.

Eye-witness reports say the two buses were on top speed. Some of the survivors interviewed blamed the unfortunate incident also on drunk driving.
Fifty died in the 70-Sitter bus while the 35-Sitter lost 30.

This is not the first time people have lost their lives on this same road as a result of drunk driving and excessive speed.

The news of the sad happening sent shock waves across the country, forcing the Minister of Transport to issue an immediate ban on the two travel agencies until further notice.

Family members of all those who traveled from or to the nations’s cap[ital on that day on that high way are being urged to report at the Bafoussam Central Mortuary for the corpse-identification process.

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Ripped Into the Headline
Write about something that happened over the weekend as though it’s the top story on your local paper.

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Don’t crash land!

When a road is rough and scary,
And it is hard for you to drive safely,
As your car can easily slide off
And land in a nearby valley,
Careful is the wise driver
Who drives on it;
And with such care
He safely arrives his destination.
But when a road is straight and smooth,
And gives no hint of any danger at all,
Reckless the drivers become;
They think they can fly like jet planes;
And before long, down in a valley
They find themselves;
Maybe never to come out again;
Beware then when the road is smooth;
You must take your time to drive;
Lest down in a valley you end.
See this in the journey of life.
Beware when the going is fine,
For that is when you can crash land.
Please, don’t crash land!