Do you believe it’s Okay either way?

P.s: I believe as a person and psychotherapist that, the very first step in dealing and healing, is to accept the situation and affirm it’s ok. Then we can proceed to say we are okay it’s this way, but we are moving on to make it this other way (of that is your overall goal).


Those who matter in society

“Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don’t matter, and those who matter don’t mind” (Bernard M. Baruch).

DSC_0000084Bernard M. Baruch is encouraging being one’s true self and freedom of expression. Many people pretend to be what they are not; thinking it would make others esteem them.
Some people do not express themselves freely for fear of what others may say or of hurting others. Such people inhibit themselves and imprison their own ideas.
On the other hand, there are people who spend their time prying into the lives of DSC_0000144others; gossiping about others. Such people have small minds. Should they talk about you, it should not bother you. Their words lack weight. Hardly do they think before they speak. They speak not because they have anything to say but to be heard. They are empty vessels out to make the loudest noise.
SAMSUNG CAMERA PICTURESThe real people who matter in society do not have time to pry into the private lives of others. Time, to them, is precious and they cannot afford to waste any of it talking about what will help no one. They take you for who you are; and respect your freedom of expression. Do you want to be ‘an empty vessel’ that makes the loudest noise or somebody who matter?

What other thing can make you consider someone as:

  1. an empty vessel in their society?
  2. Someone who matters in the society?