Is your friendship is just an ‘Artificial Friendship’ ?

Is your friendship an artifical friendship ?

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Do you not long for that particular friendship which completes you ?

What is the definition of friendship ?

Voluntary relationship between people that lasts a long time and those involved are concerned about each other. It develops from shared interests and experiences and is mutually gratifying. source Psychology

Friendship is not based on sex,or age or other reasons

What is the best part in friendship ?

Don’t you think friendship in the form of shared interests and shared experiences which become memories over the time.

Are you not,the happiest when you cherish these wonderful memories of life,at the time of stress ?

Not just that,even when you both chat or speak to each other,recollecting some of the shared moments,shared jokes,even wondering how the time moving unusually fast,even making that moment wonderful !

What I am stressing is,the shared memories become a life’s Treasure.

Don’t you agree this is the best part in friendship ?

What happens,when friendship is forged ?

Definitely,the concern for each other increases.

Shared interest further strengthens the bond.

These two can happen only when you make a sincere effort to develop an emotional bond,by opening up,since you both are connected by mutual trust’ by this time.

How to make an emotional bond ? (somebody may even call this emotional link or cosmic link)

here I wish to make it clear that there is a difference between physical attraction and emotional attraction and physical attraction is a different subject for some other time discussion.

The efforts for emotional connection must come from both the friends,willing to make sincere efforts.

Four things are extremely important

1. Trust

2. Honesty

3. Sacrifice

4. Zero Ego

If these things are achieved from both sides,automatically emotional link is evolved

Trust – should be 100% .You can share your personal stories of mutual interest, and start bonding,and be sincere and frank.communicate regularly and develop mutual confidence

Honesty –  should be 100%.Be honest in your communications.Prevent miscommunications.

Sacrifice – should be 100%.If Friends happen to be in the same place ,make yourself available Never avoid or give excuses.If you both happen to be in different cities,provide moral support as much as possible constantly.

Ego – Here there is only one solution.. Destroy the ego feelings instantly.
No one is rich than a person who has a true friend

Just two interesting quotes

How many slams in an old screen door? Depends how loud you shut it. How many slices in a bread? Depends how thin you cut it. How much good inside a day? Depends how good you live ’em. How much love inside a friend? Depends how much you give ’em.”  Shell Silverstein


To the world you may be just one person, but to one person you may be the world.” Brandy Snyder


Thank You

Philosophy Through Photography

Love is scarce- Really ?

Love is scarce- Really ?

Only thing we never get enough of is love; and the only thing we never give enough of is love.

― Henry Miller

Why this happens ?

We all  think that, Love means romance.But it is not so. There are 7 types of love.
  1. Storge- Familial love
  2. Phila-friendship ( shared goodwill)
  3. Eros-Sexual or passionate love
  4. Agape-Universal love ( unconditional love)
  5. Ludus-Playful or uncommitted love
  6. Pragma- Long term love ( married people)
  7. Philautia-self love ( healthy or unhealthy)
source, Quora) My discussion is limited to the married couple.

Think for a second.

Can you tell  the difference between ‘school and life‘ ?
” In school you are taught a lesson and then given a test.   In life,you are given a test,that teaches you the lesson” Tom Bodett
So what I am trying to tell is Life gives an opportunity to learn lessons  from our experience, in this situation….. day-to-day problems faced by the couple,thus giving them an opportunity, making them more accommodating,understanding and helpful to each other. Thus we can become wiser by experiencing these experiences. But here is the hitch. The problem comes in the unknown form of ‘E G O  nullifying all the benefits of life’s lessons,which we learn over the course of time. Why can’t we make an attempt to look into this ? Why can not we prevent this devil before it strikes us ? When we are able to manage life style diseases with sugar-free,fat-free,salt free,gluten-free etc. etc…why can’t we give a try for Ego- free ?

The only way to achieve peace and harmony is becoming ‘EGO LESS’,

and this should be the  ultimate outcome of your life’s lessons,if you are willing to learn.

Another aspect is ,to be able to differentiate, the difference between love & Possession.Don’t think ,just because you love the person…you got right to possess the person.( as if the person is a property) Remember love is selfless,coming from the bottom of the heart with total dedication,sincerity and commitment to lead a supportive life together.

And so…..

We make our life miserable because we never make an attempt to understand the full potential of true love,and thus we make ‘love’ scarce in spite of itabundance. True Love gives you, the real experience of what all you dream and Ego gives you, all the heartache. Thank you.   Philosophy through photography
“A flower cannot blossom without sunshine, and man cannot live without love”. – Max Muller

Country song ‘Montecrossa Is Right And Trump Is Wrong’ apropos USA Presidential Election 2016 (audio, video & lyrics)

With his New-Topical-SongMontecrossa Is Right And Trump Is Wrong’ Michel Montecrossa gives a mind-shaking expression to the consciousness challenge which confronts humanity through the appearance of a man like Donald Trump.

Michel Montecrossa says about his New-Topical-Song ‘Montecrossa Is Right And Trump Is Wrong’:
“At the time when the song ‘Montecrossa Is Right And Trump Is Wrong’ was written an ever more accelerated speed of consciousness change began to take hold of the earth. As an immediate result the difference between ego and soul movements became ever more visible for all of us on earth. As I sing for the people I take a stand for the soul and its wise sense for humanity. Donald Trump himself speaks about his strong ego and hails it with all the dangerous consequences. But as the speed of consciousness increases the possibilities for stunning consciousness changes also increase, that’s why we also can hope for a change in Donald Trump’s ego-consciousness into a more soulful consciousness and eventually a victory of this state of consciousness in him over his distorted values.
In my song ‘Montecrossa Is Right And Trump Is Wrong’ I picture the change from ego to soul and how good it would be for humanity.”



Montecrossa is right and Trump is wrong. / Montecrossa says: “Love and Soul.” / Trump says: “Money and Ego.”
Montecrossa is right and Trump is wrong. / Montecrossa says: “Humanity and human education.” / Trump says: “Torture and war.”
Montecrossa is right and Trump is wrong. / Montecrossa says: “The United States of Planet Earth.” / Trump says: “Americanism.”
Montecrossa is right and Trump is wrong. / Montecrossa says: “Union of the Americas.” / Trump says: “I build a wall.”
Montecrossa is right and Trump is wrong. / Montecrossa says: “Love and Freedom.” / And Trump says: “Why not nuke?”
Montecrossa is right and Trump is wrong. / Montecrossa says: “Love and Soul.” / Trump says: “Money and Ego.”
Montecrossa is right and Trump is wrong.
Lyrics & Music: Michel Montecrossa, © Mira Sound Germany


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