The senselessness I see,
In this land,
I never saw anywhere before;
The useless, pointless, fruitless,bloody fighting
Our cherished land;
Fighting that is so
meaningless, aimless and
Fighting that has brought
us nothing but suffering
and pain;
Ruinous fighting;
Who has ever seen
Anything so foolish?
Many I see, behave so stupid,
It’s so hard to understand;
I feel so damn pissed up;
We do things we shouldn’t,
To boost our ego;
Senseless killings;
Outrageous crimes;
Murders, torture, burnings;
Carried out
Under our watchful eyes;
And what has that brought?
To our doorsteps,
Death, and nothing but death;
Death and more deaths;
We kill to be killed;
You kill just to feel great;
And because you kill;
You are killed;
What has been gained?
Zero! absolutely nothing;
Sheer madness, isn’t it?
See the number of people
Who have died;
senseless killings;
What have we gained?
Instead, we have lost:
Lost people ,
Lost property,
Lost security;
Lost peace;
Lost our senses;
Lost trust;
Lost love;
Lost money;
Lost our sanity;
What senselessness!
All we have gained is:
Trauma and more trauma;
Suffering and more suffering;
While somebody is feeding
on our family blood;
Feeding fat.
This is mindless
It’s totally unproductive; Absurd, ludicrous.
It is time we come back
To our senses;
Gather the broken pieces;

Good night

Every night is uncertain;
You never can guess
What will transpire;
How it will end;
It could be in violence;
In fighting;
In war;
As we are living today;
Fighting controls the day;
Killing, the new norm;
The sound of gun
No longer scary to any one;
The sight of blood
Nothing abnormal;
And so no one is sure
Of what may happen;
It could be the worst.
That is why we pray much;
That God may not leave us;
But at all times, be near,
To intervene,
When the devil finds fault;
At all times, stand by us;
By his people;
At all times,
Protect those he loves.
I wish you a good night,
I put you in prayers;
That all be well for you.

Inspiration through Bible sharing 12


“Brothers and sisters: I am speaking to you Gentiles. Inasmuch then as I am the apostle to the Gentiles, I glory in my ministry
in order to make my race jealous and thus save some of them.
For if their rejection is the reconciliation of the world, what will their acceptance be but life from the dead?
For the gifts and the call of God are irrevocable.”

Romans 11:13-15.29

What has touched me in this text is the word reconciliation.

This word touches me because the world is so torn apart that it needs reconciliation.
If we the people of the world keep fighting one another, we will destroy ourselves and our world. We need to reconcile with one another. Jesus Christ taught us reconciliation. We are called to reconciliation.

I resolve to encourage reconciliation among my people and wherever I can so that brothers or sisters, friends who are quarreling may reconcile.

Word of life
Acceptance is my word of life for today. I have chosen this word because I consider it a requirement for reconciliation. To reconcile, you have to accept the other person. I shall try to accept others not because they are faultless but with their faults.

God our loving father, the world is torn apart. Brother is fighting brother; sister is fighting sister. Help us to reconcile so that we will put an end to all the fighting and killing going on.
This is my humble prayer, through Christ our Lord Amen!

What touches you in this text? Is it the same word or another?

What will be your word of life for today?

You may end your sharing with a prayer.

Thanks for sharing!

Love, the only solution

There is nothing here
On planet earth,
That I know
More important
Than love;
Give me money;
Give me power;
Give me position;
But if you don’t
Give me love,
You haven’t given me
Love is the final;
Without love
Life has no meaning;
People will quarrel
And fight
And kill one another;
That is what we see
In the world today.
Wars; people fight
And kill one another;
And only love
Can put an end to it.
Love, the only solution.

The high price of war makes peace imperative

The price of war is high. If you love war, and want to have it in your country be ready to pay highly for it. You may even pay with your life.
War is evil. War is nasty. War is destructive. If someone is advising you to take war as an option to achieve your dream, the person does not love you. The person may want you dead or does not care about you. Or the person may have some secret plan of how to gain when you go fighting.

I have seen the horror of war. I have lived through it and can say with conviction that peace is better than war.

A peaceful settlement is better than a war option to resolve differences. We have seen people fight for years and lost so much just to end at the negotiating table and nothing better than before was achieved.
I remember a time when my country was proudly brandished as a haven of peace in a turbulent region

Many of her neighbors were battered by devastating wars while we quietly went about our business unperturbed. Leaders from far and near filed in to get a sip of what they saw as the spring of wisdom flowing from the wisdom tank of our leaders, and which enabled them to keep the country in peace over the years. In public declarations, we were extolled for our ability to live peacefully with one another despite the more than 240 tribes that make up the country.
Only a few alert minds refused to go with the flow. They shouted out loudly enough for their voices to rise above the crowd, that the absence of war was not peace. But nobody paid heed to them. They said there could be no peace without justice. They were still ignored. They said peace without justice was a time bomb. Again, no one gave them a listening ear.
Some of those people have left this world. I can bet if they were to come back to life today, I can hear them saying, “serves you right! This is what we told you and nobody listened.”
What we have in my country today is not what many people ever imagined could happen. There is nobody in the whole country who can boast of not being hungry and thirsty for peace. No one, in his right senses, is not yearning for peace. We are all praying and crying for peace so that we can live quiet lives and enjoy the blessings that God has so generously offered us.
We who live in the war zone in the country and wear the shoe, know where it pinches.
We are tired of the horrors of war. We have had enough nightmares of brutal fighting and killing. We are exhausted. Completely worn out.

*What have we not seen?*

We have seen villages and institutions burnt down to ashes; thousands of human lives lost; untold, and outrageous atrocities ruthlessly committed against innocent men and women. The common people have paid a high price.
We have seen people kidnapped, arbitrarily arrested, exploited and tortured. We have seen thriving communities in ruins.
We live in fear, doubt, worries and insecurity.
We have lost some of our most talented men and women.

Everywhere, there is fighting and killing. In some areas at certain times, corpses are not rare to find lying in farms. In my part of the country, people have lost their lives in almost all the villages.

These were people who loved life like every other person and wanted to live on. Think of those who lost loved ones; whose loved ones have been brutally murdered. We have seen horrific images on social media.
Thousands of people have lost their homes, and other properties; thousands of people have been displaced from their homes and they are living like internally displaced persons (IDPS) or refugees in foreign countries reduced to beggars. Many businesses have been ruined; dreams shattered. People have lived in tents on hills; and some in the open air like animals.

If you look at the area of roads, we no longer have roads in some parts of our land. To travel from one town to another in the war torn zones is a night mare.
Our peace has been tossed by waves into the high sea.
We lack peace even in our hearts. We lack peace in our homes. We lack peace in our families. We lack peace in our communities. Like rain drops on leaves on a sunny morning, our peace has evaporated from the country; a country that spotlighted her peace to all the world.
Every honest person living in the country agrees we really need to get out of the war that has devastated us; that we need to have peace. We all agree that we have suffered more than enough; more than anyone ever imagined; and that the time has come to look into ourselves; be honest with ourselves and agree we need peace. That the damage is too much to bear; that we shall, for a long time, be traumatized by what we have seen and lived through.
We absolutely need peace. But we must make it clear that the peace we need is genuine peace; not fake peace; peace which will last; not peace which will one day crumble again and plunge us even deeper than ever.

*What does it take to have genuine, enduring peace? What must we do?*

Everyone knows what we need to do. There is no one worth their salt among us who does not know what we need to do to bring the problem that has devastated us to an end and have lasting peace.
What we lack is not knowledge of what to do but the will to do what we know we should do.

It has already been said again and again that true peace must pass through the door of justice.
We shall not have peace unless we have justice. For, any peace without justice is cosmetic peace; fake peace; a time bomb.
Those who have articulated this repeatedly are right.

The words of Martin Luther King Junior will always ring in our minds:

*”…injustice anywhere is a threat to peace everywhere.”*

No serious effort to procure peace can undermine the profound words of truth from great minds who have told us clearly that only justice can bring us lasting peace.

And there can be no justice unless we are ready to find the truth and let it prevail.

If we cover the truth, suppress the truth, try to bypass the truth, but say we want peace, we will only be fishing on the banks of the ocean hoping to catch a whale that can only be found in the middle of the ocean.
Let us go to the heart of this problem and establish what snatched our peace from us. What is the problem? What do people want that they are so infuriated as to pick up arms and go up the hills, ready to fight to death?
We need to talk, listen, and accept our differences and errors and correct them. Call it dialogue if you like. We need to dialogue; genuinely dialogue
We cannot refuse to talk and listen and hope to find an end to this problem. We cannot sit on the same spot, without moving an inch and hope God will toss what we want to us.
All the stakeholders must be aware that they are answerable to history; that the truth always prevails; that whatever mansion you build on a foundation of lies, against the truth, is an elephant on sandy feet. The day of crumbling for such a mansion always comes no matter how long it takes; and no matter how far your mansion may piece into the sky.

The media have to play their role and contribute to genuine peace during these trying times so that we get a lasting solution to the problem at hand. Truthful information about what is going on is paramount. The media must refrain from playing a public relations or propaganda role, spreading inflammatory and untruthful information that worsens the situation, sets minds in confusion and makes people unable to make right choices. That only sinks us deeper and deeper into a bottomless pit.

We have to have genuine peace once and for all.
And we each have our role to play.
Each of us owes present and future generations a duty to become a vehicle or instrument of peace during this most turbulent period of our history.
We cannot continue to do nothing and witness human beings being slaughtered like animals that can be tortured and killed at will. We cannot continue to have this
horrible violence, burning, destruction of property, and gruesome killing of people.
Since we know the right thing to do, let us all be honest and end this trauma! We cannot fail to rise up to this great challenge of our time. We cannot wait for others. We must each ask: “what is my contribution?” All hands are needed on deck; all hands; including yours.

Without peace, we cannot enjoy this world. Without peace, how can we go about our businesses and jobs? How can we live our normal lives? Worship our Lord and Creator? Without peace how can we develop?
We need peace. We don’t want to be running up and down hills and valleys as we run away from war. We don’t want our population to be decimated by war. We want to live in peace. We want to live peaceful lives so that we can go out and come in when we want; so that we can go wherever we want without fear for our lives.
God gave us this world to live freely. We want peace to live freely.

We have not even talked of the economic devastation of war. It leaves the economy in most cases in shambles. And it takes a long time to recover.

Poverty, disease, and untold human suffering installed.

Humanity does not need war.

Humanity needs peace.

Marital violence is an enemy to marriage

When I was growing up, I used to see couples exchanging blows. That did not go down well with me.

I don’t like when husband and wife fight. But many do.

That is what we call domestic violence. You can also call it marital violence.

Do you know couples who fight?

Tell me what you feel about them.

Fighting destroys the joy of marriage.

You didn’t marry each other to be fighting. Or is that part of your agenda as a couple?

If you love your spouse, and your spouse loves you, don’t fight. If you have been fighting. Please, stop it.

It is shameful for a couple to fight. I think it is also a disgrace.

Imagine a man and his wife fighting!

It is worse when husband and wife make a public show of their physical battles ; which is exactly what many couples do.

I know you may feel bad that I am saying this particularly if you are guilty of fighting with your spouse.

But mind you that my intention is not to humiliate or hurt anybody. It is to encourage all of us to desist from action that can be ruinous to our marriage and family.

Do you know?

Truth be spoken. Fighting is not for couples who have educated minds.

Marital fighting, or domestic violence or marital violence, whichever you choose to call it, is not to be encouraged. It can destroy your marriage before you blink.

And often, people make one big mistake. They think that only wives suffer from domestic violence. That is not true. Men are also victims of domestic violence.

That is not even the issue. The issue is domestic violence is a dirty game. Domestic violence is evil. Domestic violence destroys marriage.

Couples should stay off domestic violence. They should not promote domestic violence.

If you have been promoting domestic violence in your home, I hope you grow up and stop it.

A respectable man and a respectable woman should not be seen or known to be exchanging blows or even just words or rubbing their backs in mud as two angry kids.

Verbal violence

I hope no one goes away from here thinking that domestic or marital violence is limited to fighting.

There is verbal domestic violence as well. When you speak aggressively to your spouse, that is violence.

Threatening your spouse, using insulting or abusive language. In short, when tempers flare up and there is an exchange of words, that is violence.

Other forms of violence

There are many other forms that we don’t need to go into details here. But we can mention silence, ignoring your spouse, refusing to give money, locking your spouse out of the room etc.

Children are also victims

To come back to the victims, at times, the children sufferer more than their parents. And the negative impact may remain with them for many years. It should not surprise you if such children grow up to be violent to their own spouses.

Exchanging words and fighting at home is a very bad example that some parents teach their children.

(To be continued)

Prayer for the suffering people of the world

Almighty God and father,
All over the world,
Many of your children are suffering;
And are helpless;
They do not have the means
Or the knowhow to help themselves,
Dear God, do something for them;
The people of Australia;
The people of other disaster zones;
Those in war torn zones;
Who are either fighting
And killing themselves,
Or dying of other causes,
Many are on the run;
People are perishing
From hunger,
And lack of medical care;
Almighty God,
Everything is under your control;
You have the means
To solve all the problems
Of the world;
You can stop suffering;
You can stop wars,
And the killings going on;
You can make peace
And happiness prevail
In the world,
Please, God, do it for us.

Tell all killers

Stop being violent;
Stop being wicked!
Tell all killers
To stop killing people!
Tell all cheaters,
To stop cheating others!
Stop exploiting people;
Stop being greedy;
Greed is killing people.
Wickedness is everywhere;
Stop hating people.
Stop, stop, stop.
We are tired of evil;
We want no more hatred;
Quarreling is too much;
Fighting is exaggerated;
Wars are killing;
It is just too much.
Put an end to all wars;
Give peace a chance;
Give love a chance;
The world must be one.
We must be one;
Whether black or white;
Whether rich or poor;
Whether man or woman;
Religion does not matter.
Stop all evil;
Stop all hatred.
Let it stop at once

Our problem is greed

Can we not love one another,
Instead of hate one another
In this world?
Can we not live in harmony
Instead of living in disharmony
In this world?
Can we not stop fighting one another
And live together in peace
In this world?
Instead of being at war always?
What makes it so hard
To live with others in peace?
Can we not share the fruits
Of the garden fairly among ourselves?
Why do some people want to grab
Everything only for themselves?
Some people want the Lion’s share;
But why such greed?
Because that is where the problem lies.
The day we remove greed
From our hearts,
And replace it with generosity,
And think of others
When dishing the food,
So that each one has an equal share,
Peace will start to reign
Among us in this world.
Our trouble comes from greed. We want to eat alone.