Good morning my love, I want to hear from you Before I start my day; Your words fire me up; Your words energize me; Your words are my oxygen; Your words are the sugar That makes my tea sweet; Come whisper Sweet words of love In my ears. And fire me up, And make this day great For yours humbly.
Hi loving friends! I pray you! Let us be friends For ever; Together till the end; Holding hands; We journey as one; Heaven so desires; For that, He, not human Put us together; Are we to sever The link? Cut the chord? Untie the knot? Are we to put asunder What Almighty God Has united? We dare not; Who are we to provoke A mighty wrath? We are bound to His will, To bow to Him, He who is so mighty, So powerful, so invincible. He wants us together Till the end. And there, Never more to part.
I am pleased with you; I like your ways; I like how you show me love; When you smile to me, I see love In your smile; When you look at me, I see love In your eyes; When you talk to me, I hear love In your voice; To crown it all, When you touch me, A current of love Flows through My whole body. I sum everything By saying I am pleased with you; A fun way of saying I love you.
I have lost some friends; Friends who were precious To me; Friends I did not like to lose; And for ridiculous reasons; Religion is one of them; Some friends have left me Because they have discovered We belong to different religions; They don’t like my religion; I told them religion should not separate us; They will not hear; They were adamant; They are not making friends With people who belong To other religions; What can I do? Condemned to accept it As it is; But still I am not satisfied; I don’t believe in discrimination On religious lines; I don’t believe in discrimination at all, Be it geographical, linguistic, political, cultural Or religious. A human being is first A human being, Before Belonging to a country, a culture A religion; Or a language. I think we should love everybody; And treat everybody the same; That means fairly; Irrespective of their religion.
I do really admire you
My faithful friends;
You are the kind of friends
You are so scarce
What we mostly find
Are unfaithful friends;
Who will be with you,
When the going is good
And part ways
When the going is bad
Call them fake friends;
That is what they are;
Who cannot be trusted;
Who cannot be counted on;
Who cannot stand for you
In light and in darkness;
When the rain is pouring
As when the sun is shining;
You have proven your fidelity, faithful friends;
I love you, faithful friends;
You are, to me, great souls;
Being what many cannot be,
You are great souls;
The blessings of fidelity
Oh! my great, faithful friends!
‘We need old friends to help us grow old and new friends help us stay young”Letty Cottin Pogrebin
It’s true that peers share common interest because they are in the same age group,but still you can share interests with people who are younger or older than you.In fact you can learn a lot from different kinds of conversations.
Personally I feel there is no age limit.
Age becomes just a number on many occasions,and friendship is no different.
Remember Friendship just happens.
Never judge people by the age.
As long as you share mutual interest,comfortable with each other,and even supportive in situations that demand your attention difference in age makes no difference.
The joy that the friendship gives irrespective of the age difference can not be explained by these two friends concerned.
Friendship vibes are a wonderful feelings as long as
you don’t cross the limits or
Become possessive or
Have High expectations or
Develop emotional dependency.
Doesn’t everybody deserve a Best Friend Forever ?
Follow your heart but carry your mind too.
” One of the best things about Friendship is that age doesn’t matter ” Anonymous
“The most intriguing people you will encounter in this life are the people who had insights about you, that you didn’t know about yourself.” Shannon L. Alder
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“Oh God ,I just met you ,but I feel I know you so much already”
A kindred spirit is someone whose energy resonates at the same frequency as yours.
They are the FEEL GOOD FACTORS
This can happen when you meet some one in person or online !
Definition of Kindred Spirit
According to Free Dictionary, Kindred spirit is defined as
“A person who shares several or many fundamental beliefs,ideas,convictions,sentiments,attitudes and/or interests with oneself”.
It’s shared way of experiencing the world.
Simply put, a kindred spirit is someone who you share a mutual meaningful connection with.
Kindred spirit is the person who understands you so well and you too feel ,you understand this person equally well at the very first meeting between you both.
Both are very comfortable with each other at any given point .
It’s about innate connection.
The kindred spirit can enter your life for a moment, for a short period or be with you life long .
We meet many people in our lives.With some we feel the disconnect as if there is a wall in between but with some you feel they are magnetic and you both get attracted to each other !
To discover a kindred spirit is to find your heart ,in the heart of a friend. Ann Parrish
Kindred spirits can be with anybody,be a known or unknown person.
What is the basis of Kindred Spirits ?
You both share common interests.
you can talk hours together and surprisingly outsiders can’t understand you.
You both understand each other so well and there is never an argument.
You both enjoy each others humour
You both feel as if you are a long-lost friends.
You are comfortable with each other .
You don’t hesitate to tell the most personal stuff
Though you might have met the person physically or online for a brief period, you have some sixth sense telling you that you can trust this person.
You are available all the time supporting each other both in Times of happiness and sadness.
You both are always in sync.You both understand your limitations.And there is some unexplainable cosmic flow between the two.The relationship is always positive and supportive.
Don’t confuse Kindred Spirits with soul mates or Twin flames.That is another discussion on some other day.
Do you not long for that particular friendship which completes you ?
What is the definition of friendship ?
Voluntary relationship between people that lasts a long time and those involved are concerned about each other. It develops from shared interests and experiences and is mutually gratifying. source Psychology dictionary.com
Friendship is not based on sex,or age or other reasons
What is the best part in friendship ?
Don’t you think friendship in the form of shared interests and shared experiences which become memories over the time.
Are you not,the happiest when you cherish these wonderful memories of life,at the time of stress ?
Not just that,even when you both chat or speak to each other,recollecting some of the shared moments,shared jokes,even wondering how the time moving unusually fast,even making that moment wonderful !
What I am stressing is,the shared memories become a life’s Treasure.
Don’t you agree this is the best part in friendship ?
What happens,when friendship is forged ?
Definitely,the concern for each other increases.
Shared interest further strengthens the bond.
These two can happen only when you make a sincere effort to develop an emotional bond,by opening up,since you both are connected by mutual trust’ by this time.
How to make an emotional bond ? (somebody may even call this emotional link or cosmic link)
here I wish to make it clear that there is a difference between physical attraction and emotional attraction and physical attraction is a different subject for some other time discussion.
The efforts for emotional connection must come from both the friends,willing to make sincere efforts.
Four things are extremely important
4. Zero Ego
If these things are achieved from both sides,automatically emotional link is evolved
Trust – should be 100% .You can share your personal stories of mutual interest, and start bonding,and be sincere and frank.communicate regularly and develop mutual confidence
Honesty – should be 100%.Be honest in your communications.Prevent miscommunications.
Sacrifice – should be 100%.If Friends happen to be in the same place ,make yourself available Never avoid or give excuses.If you both happen to be in different cities,provide moral support as much as possible constantly.
Ego – Here there is only one solution.. Destroy the ego feelings instantly.
Finally No one is rich than a person who has a true friend
Just two interesting quotes
How many slams in an old screen door? Depends how loud you shut it. How many slices in a bread? Depends how thin you cut it. How much good inside a day? Depends how good you live ’em. How much love inside a friend? Depends how much you give ’em.” Shell Silverstein
To the world you may be just one person, but to one person you may be the world.” Brandy Snyder
Don’t you agree with me that True friendship is difficult since finding a true friend is the hardest.
” A friend is some one who understands your past,believe in your future….accepts you to-day the way you are “. Unknown
We may not realize the value of friendship until the time it is given when it is badly needed,so we have to cultivate and cherish the friendship .
Make aware to your friends how much they mean to you and how well they contribute to your happiness from your routine boring life.
Don’t ask me how to pick up a true friend or how to know,that the other person can be a good and even a true friend.
This is a difficult subject and can be discussed on another day.
The following quote is my feeling ,whenever I interact with my true friends.
Friendship is a treasured gift,and every time I talk with you I feel as if I’m getting richer and richer “. Unknown
Friends can even become Besties.
True friendship is ‘Magical’ !!
“Friendship is not about whom you have known the longest,it’s about who walked into your life and said “I’m here for you” and proved it. Unknown
The true friend helps me being a counselor in times of distress ,
Can be my confidant when the situation demands,most importantly gives all the strength I need when I am the weakest at some point of time of my life.
Now you will ask me…What is the secret of sustaining this friendship ??
Certain things come to my mind,which can further the bond.
1. Be frank.Accept the drawbacks or short fall either of you may possess.
No body is perfect in this world and everybody has some story to tell and as a true friend you are willing to listen.Provide the much-needed leaning shoulder.Respect the individuality.Even if situation demands call spade a spade and explain the realities.Never thrust your opinions.When you tell the truth let the other person accept this rather than doubting and vice versa.
2. Develop the principle of ‘forget and forgive’ since we know we are never free of committing the mistakes and it’s human to do mistakes.
3.Try to recollect the fun moments or joyous moments you both had while spending time together or enjoying the jokes during your chat times.
4.Share the happiness together.
The happiness ,one can feel only when one is able to share with the other.
Remember you can never enjoy happiness all alone.
Thank you my friends for patiently reading.
Now please share your personal experience on ‘Gift of Friendship’ be on-line or off-line.