I say poor you men! I feel for you; You’re not poor Because you lack money; You are not poor Because you lack Earthly property, You are not poor Because you lack wisdom, Knowledge or understanding; Because in great abundance You possess each one of them; You are poor Because you suffer More than you can say; So much you sacrifice For others; Kids, spouse and others; You do all you can To see them grow; To see them succeed; But once they’re fine, They forget and even deny You ever did a thing; And sadly about you, Nobody cares Your time is over; You’re a nuisance; A liability no longer an asset; If you aren’t careful, You become lonely; And end miserable. That is the fate of men. Yes, poor men. You suffer even in The hands of other men; And closest ones to you.
Listen to this conversation and answer this question: Does being a girl or a woman qualify someone to play the role of the slave of the family? Or the house help?
TABA: Who sweeps the floor in your house? MAMA: My girl or I. TABA: What of your boy and your husband? MAMA: They pocket their hands and do nothing. TABA: Who dry-cleans and mobs the floor? MAMA: I do it or my girl does it. TABA: What about your husband and your boy? MAMA: They do nothing TABA: Who does the cooking in your house? MAMA: I do it or my girl does it.
TABA: What about your boy and your husband?MAMA: They do nothing.TABA: Who fetches firewood from the forest? MAMA: If I don’t , my girl does it.TABA: What about your boy and your husband?MAMA: They do nothing.TABA: Who fetches water from the well?MAMA: My girl does it or I do it.TABA: What about your boy and your husband?MAMA: They do nothing.TABA: Who bathes and dresses the baby in your house?MAMA: My girl does it or I do it.TABA: What about your boy and your husband?MAMA: They do nothing.TABA: Who feeds the baby?MAMA: I do it or my girl does it.TABA: What about your boy and your husband?MAMA: They don’t do anything.TABA: Who carries the baby on the back?MAMA: I do it or my girl does it.TABA: What about your boy or your husband?MAMA: They don’t do anything.TABA: Who cajoles the baby to sleep?MAMA: I do it or my girl does it.TABA: What about your boy and your husband?MAMA: They do nothing.TABA: Who runs the risk of not going to school in your house? MAMA: My daughter. TABA: What about your boy? MAMA: He is a man. We will do everything for him to go to school.TABA: Who is likely to be forced to marry at an early age?MAMA: My girlTABA: What about your boy?MAMA: He is a man. He will marry when he likes.TABA: Who is likely to drop out of school for one reason or the other?MAMA: My girl.TABA: What about your boy?MAMA: We do everything to make sure he goes to school.
TABA: Who goes to the farm to till or harvest food?MAMA: My girl and I.TABA: What about your boy and your husband? MAMA: They don’t do such dirty work. It is for us women.TABA: Who goes to the kitchen to cook?MAMA: My girl and I.TABA: What about your boy and your husband?MAMA: They are too important to go into the kitchen to cook.TABA: That is not fair. You and your girl do all the work in your house.MAMA: Yes.TABA: What about the men?MAMA: They relax. Watch television or browse.TABA: Do you find that normal? Is it just?MAMA: That is the way it is in my country. The women do all the work. The men relax.TABA: But that is unacceptable. It is discrimination and social injustice. Things must change.MAMA: Hahahah! We are used to. We like it.TABA: The work must be shared. You women must do some; and the men must do some.Women cannot continue to be victims of such discrimination. It is a shame! Women are not slaves. To be a woman is not equal to being a slave.
International Men’s Day: I am happy I am a man; I am celebrating I am a man; I am proud I am a man and I am a father; I am happy I am a man and I am a husband. I am not sad I am a man; I am not angry I am a man; I am thankful to God I am a man.
If you take delight In conquering, Let me tell you What’s best to conquer; And what not to conquer; And what’s best to come. Don’t conquer women, Some men spend their lives Conquering women; That is not what You should conquer. Don’t conquer men; Can you guess? Millions of women are out Today trying to Conquer men; Another bad choice Of what to conquer. Don’t conquer money; Money may not be bad But can be dangerous; Before you open your eyes, You are in ruins; If it is not how you Search for it, That ruins you, It is how you use it. Don’t conquer power. Power corrupts; And can destroy you Faster than you imagine. If you must conquer power, Be careful how you do it, Lest you burn your fingers. Don’t conquer fame; Or stardom; Conquer hearts; Conquer people with love; God wants us to conquer The world with love; Conquer the hearts Of fellow human beings Not for selfish reasons But for selfless reasons. Conquer the heart of God.
Men like a wife who loves them. Men like a wife who is faithful; Men like a wife who respects them; Men like a wife who is unferstanding; Men hate a nagging wife; Men hate a wife who tries to control them; Men hate extravsgant wives. Men hate ungsithful wives.
As long as we live, we will always talk about the relationship between man and woman. I learned as I grew up that before you go into a race with a woman, you must weigh your chances of success very well. This does not mean that a man cannot defeat a woman in a race, but that it is often very hard. I really don’t know if this is true. That is why I would like to hear what you think.
I was also taught, when I was young, that a man who takes his hand and hits his wife is not qualified to call her wife. My response is, while I agree, I say some women are not easy. They tempt their spouses to consider hitting them from time to time. Anyway, I have never considered hitting my spouse. What is your take on this?
Still talking about women, it looks clear that if women controlled their tongues better, they would have fewer problems with their husbands. On the other hand, if men showed more love and fidelity to their wives, there would be fewer problems between them.