Inspiration to end a quarrel (Be inspired today 134 by Ngobesing Suh Romanus)

Quarreling won't help you;
So why quarrel
When it won't help?
Instead you should sue for peace?
Peace leads to success in life;
Success in marriage and happiness;
No one can be happy
Who spends their time quarreling;
I see spouses quarreling;
What a waste of marital life!
And an embarrassment, indeed!
You didn't marry to be quarreling;
That is not in your marital vows;
I see brother and brother,
Brother and sister;
Sister and sister who quarrel;
God did not create us to quarrel
And fight and kill ourselves;
Brutes do that of course;
I urge you to say no to quarreling;
And say yes to living in peace
And harmony.
So my friend,
As we part way here and now,
Take this with you:
A big NO to quarrels;
STOP THAT QUARREL!


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Do you know what?

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Do you know what?
We quarrel about things
We should not quarrel about;
We argue about things
We should not argue about;
We worry about things
We should not worry about;
We fear things
We should not fear;
We doubt things
We should not doubt;
We believe things
We should not believe;
We do things
We should not do.
We need to think twice;
We need to examine ourselves.

 

QUOTE ( evil in the world)

It is both paradoxical and sad that the problems which beset the world and make it so hard to enjoy are caused by us, knowingly or unknowingly; yet we complain so much about them. If you have ever sent out a hate thought, quarreled or argued with somebody, stood on someone’s way, gossiped about another person, cheated someone, told a lie, stolen, felt jealous etc, you have contributed to make the world an evil place. To contribute our own quota to make the world a better place, we have to refrain, to the best of our abilities, from these negative attitudes and actions. (Romilia Quotes)

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“It is both paradoxical and sad that the problems which beset the world and make it so hard to enjoy are caused by us, knowingly or unknowingly; yet we complain so much about them. If you have ever sent out a hate thought, quarreled or argued with somebody, stood on someone’s way, gossiped about another person, cheated someone, told a lie, stolen, felt jealous etc, you have contributed to make the world an evil place. To contribute our own quota to make the world a better place, we have to refrain, to the best of our abilities, from these negative attitudes and actions.” (Romilia Quotes)

 

At a complete loss

I am at a complete loss;
I don’t know what to believe,
And where
The world is heading to;
We are all quarreling
With one another;
Fighting with one another;
Destroying one another;
Killing one another;
All because we are not
Just to one another.
Injustice is our problem;
We are always trying
To cheat;
And nobody likes
To be cheated;
Can’t we save the world?
Can’t we save the human race?
If we are not careful,
We will extinct the human race;
By fighting
And destroying one another.

Don’t leave your family

You may quarrel,

Even if you fight,

Don’t leave your family;

It’s your family;

Stay!

And I don’t even like

All this quarreling

In the family;

What’s the fighting for;

That’s not the reason for family;

Or purpose of family;

Family is meant to be a haven

Of love;

Of joy;

Of happiness;

Of harmony;

Of everything good;

Stop making your family

The devil’s workshop!

That is not correct;

And not fair;

If you have left your family,

I say go back to your family;

If you want to leave

Your family,

I say stop it;

Stay in your family;

And other family members,

Stop promoting hatred

In your family;

Stop causing division

In your family;

Stop being greedy;

Greed kills family unity;

Stop selling family land

And other family property

And mismanaging the money;

What belongs to the family

No one should take alone;

That brings trouble;

Let all these squabbles stop

In the family.

Let love, unity and peace

Enjoy their place

In your family.

War betide you if you cause

Division to come into

Your family;

War betide you if you are

A catalyst of hatred

In your family.

You should be an agent of

Family love;

Family unity;

Family understanding,;

Family peace and harmony;

Let it not be heard that

Your family is in shambles

Because of you.

Instead, you should be hailed

As your family unifier.

And abundantly, God will bless you.

Still to understand marriage

I am still to understand marriage;
What makes marriage so difficult?
Husband and wife have different
Backgrounds,
Yes,
And it’s normal to see things
Differently,
Yes,
But does that stop them
From living in peace?

Must there be stress always?

Must there be squabbles?

Must they fight?

Must the home turn into a boxing ring?

Do they have to make as people
In opposing camps
Instead of being people
In the same team?
I think many couples exaggerate;
They spend their time competing;
Over what?
For what?
And why?
You see a man and a woman
Who have lived for 3 decades
Quarreling and even fighting;
What a shame!
You see a grand pa
And a grand ma exchanging nasty
Words;
What a double shame!
Truly, it is hard to understand;
But I think couples can live
In peace;
They can live in harmony;
They can understand each other;
Bypass differences;
And enjoy life together.
Let us stop exaggerating;
Let us stop giving marriage
Such a bad name;
Marriage is not a bad thing,
Marriage is a sweet thing created
By Almighty God himself
To enable us enjoy together as
Husband and wife.
If you are a husband or a wife
Reading this, pledge that you will
Do your best to live happily and in Harmony with your spouse.

by Romilia

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