Are you sad ?

Are you sad ?

“Some days are just bad days,that’s all.You have to experience sadness to know happiness,and I remind myself that not every day is going to be a good day,that’s just the way it is !           Dita Von Teese

“It is popularly believed that sadness is due to certain things that happens to us. The cause of sadness is often traced to misfortune,hardship or humiliation

In truth all sadness is from within.

Sadness is the result of our inner attitude towards outer happenings”.

Dada J P Vaswani

The reasons for sadness are many. And all of you know.

Reaction to sadness varies from person to person and depends on how sensitive the person is.

Sadness can break the person completely and even push into suicidal tendencies.

Some cry to get relief,some indulge in self harming,some manage the show by fake smile,but still many are unable to come out of the feelings.

We all should realise that nothing is permanent in this life. Change is the way of life.

Whether it is sadness or happiness it won’t last forever and comes alternatively and this is nature’s law. Every thing changes over the time and time is the greatest healer!

Whatever may be the reason for sadness…never keep the emotions inside. Remember it’s like a time bomb.

What is the solution ?

Yes solution available.

A sad person needs another person who understands him/her 100%

The sad person just needs this person on whom he/she can lean on and cry their hearts out. Believe me the relief is instant !

Dear friends,please share your thoughts.

Thank you

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Mixed feelings

I have mixed feelings;
I am happy,
And I am sad;
Some beautiful things
Some ugly things
Happened as well;
I smiled;
I laughed;
But also, I pushed back
Some tears;
Good things
And bad things;
And sadness;
But after everything,
I want to end the day happy;
I choose happiness;
And dump sadness;
Happiness stands talk;
Happiness is the winner.
So no more mixed feelings.
I say no to
Mixed feelings.


I recalled with a vividness I found unsettling, my feeling when I’d seen the damage that I’d done to her. It was a primal feeling in which I still felt gripped. Mingling with all these confusions I was acutely unaware of my very own alienness. The facts were mounting, the truth was before me and I felt its crushing weight as it was a mountain on my shoulders. I was face to face with the fact that I had pushed her away.

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There’s a hidden story behind them, there’s a secret hidden pain, those deep, yet long wrinkles, that attempt to hide the scars in vain,

 her sad sunken eyes searched for someone lost in the distance, I noticed a tear tremble as she tried her best to avoid them in resistance. 

Who was it that she longed for? who was it that she searched? who could of left her so broken? Unaided as I continued to implore. 

She looked at me, as if it was her final goodbye, I held her hand to reassure her; as she began.. 

to close her eyes.


Lies: They eat you up inside.

Apprehensive of the plot i’ve conceived,

the seeds i’ve sown,

the lies I’ve weaved.

I swallowed the guilt like a heavy tonic,

I pencilled over the stencil of truth,

a white lie won’t hurt you,

I say as butterflies line my stomach.

I fear the way my eyes betray me,

the tremors in my fingers,

as I open my mouth and let tumble forth,

the distorted reality that I wish you to believe.

Blood on her conscience.

                     I’ve been standing here for an hour. I can feel my hands trembling and my knees shaking. My dress is clinging to my body and my heart, I can feel it in my throat. I don’t think anybody has noticed the tiny drops on my dress. It’s too dark in here and nobody is looking at me anymore. It’s funny how one brick in an alleyway can change your life. I feel a bit light-headed now, I think I should go to the ladies room.

                     The music isn’t so loud in here. I hate going to discos, I shouldn’t have come. Why did Amber bring me here? She always wanted to meet men and sleep with them. Disgusting, I’d rather stay at home. My make-up is so smudged, I shouldn’t have cried so much. How did she always manage to provoke me? It’s not my fault that she was a slut. I should curl my hair when I go out next time, I saw a woman here with curly hair and she looked beautiful. Amber would have loved to curl my hair, too bad she’s dead. She should have known to keep her mouth shut. These stains will take forever to get out. I better leave now, it’s almost 8p.m and I need to find a bus stop so that I can go home.

                       Back again in this loud crazy hell hole. Look at these depraved people. Wait! Who’s that? No, I’m just hallucinating. It can’t be her. I better get out of here soon, it’s beginning to get crowded. There she is again! Amber? How can that be? I thought I killed her….

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A surpassing power

Such moments,
We all do wish they
Don’t come;
Such moments
When sadness grips us
Head and toes;
Such moments
When a loved one lifeless does lie;
Yet, come, they always do;
And however loudly we may cry,
Not even a single thing will change;
So dear to us is the lifeless one,
And things would be better
With them around;
But when the time does come,
The time has come;
When the bell does go,
The bell is gone;
And that is where our power
Falls short;
We may boast and talk so loud;
And say no God there is anywhere;
But when that moment he decides
Should come,
Lifeless we’re bound to lie;
And nothing anyone can do
Will change in that.
Believe or refuse to believe;
There’s a surpassing power
We all must fear;
I call him God;
What of you?

Let us comfort him

Dear loving friends,
I have received a message from a member of the Success Inspirer community, Shivakumar Malekopmath, known in short as Shiva, informing me of the loss of his father at the age of 85 in India. He died suddenly of a heart problem on September 25, 2015.

What a sad moment for our friend! The funeral has been scheduled for 11th October 2015. Eulogies in the form of speeches and poems are being prepared in his honor.

At this sad moment in the life of our friend, I invite all of you in the Success Inspirer community, dear friends, to say a word of condolence to comfort our friend, Shiva. We have become family, haven’t we?

You may express our condolence here in the comment box. Shiva has written a poem as tribute to his dad which he will publish on his site after the funeral. I will reblog that poem to let you read about the father of our beloved friend.

Let’s love one another in good and in bad times.

Girl on the move

Linda set to go

Linda set to go

A few minutes ago, a plane took off for Europe at the International Airport in Douala, Cameroon. On one of the seats was our daughter, Linda, 24.

When we say hard work pays, I have seen it with this young lady. God has blessed her with enormous potential; and she has worked very hard to develop it. If all blessings come from God, we have to play our part and let God play His.This is what she is doing.

She’ll be away in Europe for one year as an international volunteer. This is the biggest opportunity that she has ever had to both develop and showcase her talent. I have no doubt that she will do it.

What is amazing right now is like when she touches something it turns into gold.I guess the source of this is the fact that she grew up in the heart of the organization which I created and ran for many years known as Gold Touch International Organization. Through it I promoted the philosophy of positive or possibility thinking.

Our children become what we train them to be. At age five Linda often got people spellbound in public occasions especially on International Women’s Day with her presentations.That began instilling in her courage, and self confidence – marvelous qualities which have never left her.

If I were asked to give advice to parents on how to bring up their children to be the best children and parents tomorrow, I would not hesitate to tell them: “Parents, instill in your children, while they are still young, values which you want them to grow up with.”

Those who become great men and women do not wait to be offered their opportunities on a platter of gold. They work for them; and early childhood education can help greatly facilitate this for them.

I gave her two messages just before we separated. One was a revised edition of this
The second was this:
MY DREAM FOR YOU??????????

My dream for you I had when you were born
And I saw you climbing the full ladder’s rungs
At the summit I saw you taking your place;
Today, the signs I see, my dream coming true;
Whatever you touch, I see it turning to gold;
You are so bold; so confident; and sure of yourself;
You know what you want and know you will get it;
You trust in God and the potential he put in you;
The love of family, friends; admirers go with you;
Accompanied by our prayers from day to day;
If of one thing I am sure from Almighty God,
It’s this great destiny He has for you.
When greatness smiles at you as I know it will
By the grace of God who loves you much,
Fight for the poor and fight for the weak;
That on their faces they may have some smiles.
With love
Your Dad.
I do not know how you feel; but I have just said clearly how I feel. Thanks
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