In Cameroon’s English-speaking part, lives are being lost, houses are burned down or destroyed, hospitals and schools have been burnt down, people are kidnapped, tortured and killed, heavy ransom are demanded, enemies are settling scores; no one is sure of living till the next day. It is a traumatic situation. Many are unable to go bury their loved ones when they die. Isn’t hell better?
Is there no one to help? Does no one care? The Church is consoling, preaching love, peace and reconciliation. See below. But can’t anyone help?
4: steadfast despite opposition, difficulty, or adversity
Notice the words used by the dictionary; ‘pains…trials…provocation…strain…opposition…difficulty, and adversity.’
The price of patience is far more than momentary irritation at being delayed. It is the price of pain, trials, and adversity.
In other words, a truly patient person will be one who endures suffering, and that is a reality all seek to avoid. It makes patience the hardest of virtues.
The Patience of Job
The quintessential story of profound patience is the account of Job from the Old Testament. Traditionally, if someone says that another “has the patience of Job,” it was considered a compliment.
The meaning behind this is that because Job stoically endured great suffering, he exhibited great patience. However, a mini-exposition of the book of Job reveals that patient waiting has a different character than we might believe.
Chapters one and two set the stage. God gives permission for Satan to test Job’s faith, and Satan proceeds to destroy all that Job has or loves.
Job literally sits on the ash-heap of his life in apparent silence for the next seven days. Then, in chapter 3, Job comes to the end of his silence by cursing the day he was born.
His ‘friends’ who had sat with him in silence then speak. For most of the rest of the story, they trash Job and claim he must’ve sinned grievously or else these bad things wouldn’t have happened.
The End of Job’s Patience
Job refuses their judgment and defends his wish for God to end his life, as well as defending himself against the charges of his companions. The bulk of Job’s defense is not to excuse himself but to cry out pleading that God explain why this is happening.
Finally, after several pleas and complaints by Job to God, and rebukes of Job by the others, God responds beginning in chapter 38. The Divine words mark the end of both Job’s patience and complaints and hold the key to how patience is indeed a virtue.
Chapter’s 38-41 feature God seemingly scolding Job for his complaints. Job’s words in chapter 42 reveal that he recognizes his ignorance in the face of his suffering.
…Therefore I have uttered what I did not understand, things too wonderful for me, which I did not know. Job 42:3 [ESV]
Job suffered grievously and that caused him to question his faith in God’s judgment. After God spoke, Job repented of his complaints and humbled himself before God.
The LORD speaks after Job’s repentance and provides us with a crucial fact about patience.
After the LORD had spoken these words to Job, the LORD said to Eliphaz the Temanite: “My anger burns against you and against your two friends, for you have not spoken of me what is right, as my servant Job has. Job 42:7 [ESV]
What was the biggest difference between what Job’s friends said and what Job said? The three friends talked to Job, while Job addressed God.
True Patience Results From Faith
When the statements of Job’s friends are examined, they contain basically two things. One is a condemnation of Job and the other is a defense of God’s seeming judgment upon him.
When Job speaks, he is also saying two things. He defends his character and directs his hurt and questioning to God.
In other words, Job talked to God, while the others just talked about God. That is the difference of faith.
Real patience is not simply waiting on God; it is waiting for God. It isn’t to ‘let go and let God,’ it is to let go and seek God even more in the middle of trials and suffering.
Author Philip Yancey explains it this way in his book, “Disappointment With God,”
…the more important battle, as shown in Job, takes place inside us. Will we trust God? Job teaches that at that moment when faith is hardest and least likely, then faith in most needed.
Patience is a virtue because it places faith in what the LORD is doing for His ultimate purposes, even when it involves suffering for us. It puts God on the throne of life and kicks us off of it.
That was a lesson Jesus taught while on earth all the way to His own suffering for us on the cross. He trusted and followed God the Father patiently and would not remove Himself from suffering He knew would come.
Patience is a reflection of faithfully turning to God.
But without faith it is impossible to please him: for he that cometh to God must believe that he is, and that he is a rewarder of them that diligently seek him. Hebrews 11:6 [KJV]
A Great Example in the Midst of Loss
I preached many hundreds of sermons in my 20 years as a pastor. I have listened to many times that amount of messages in my life.
One message touched especially moved me and it is appropriate to mention it here for it exemplifies patience applied in the midst of great sorrow. The late evangelist and pastor E.V. Hill preached this as his wife’s eulogy.
I have listened to this many times and each time brings me to tears. I urge any who suffer trials today to hear this, for it is a great example of real and righteous patience.
May the LORD bless you and keep you faithfully patient in and through every trial now and forever. Next time we will look at the virtue of Kindness.
Sources: The Holy Bible, English Standard Version, Crossway Bibles, 2001 The Holy Bible, King James Version, Public Domain
“Disappointment With God” by Philip Yancy, Zondervan, 1988
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Pray for all those who are in pain today;
That God may relieve their suffering;
Many are those who are suffering;
From one plight or another;
Some are hungry;
No food to eat;
Some are sick;
No cure for their illness;
Some lack the money for medical attention
Or to buy their medication;
Some are tortured in their own families;
In their own country;
They need your prayers;
Some are unjustly punished;
Punished for crimes others have committed;
Some are displaced;
Some have no roof over their heads;
Pray for all these people;
That the Lord may have mercy on them.
And relieve their suffering;
Will you have time to pray for them?
Are we aware
Of what we are doing
To each other?
Are we aware
That we are gradually
The human race?
Are we aware
Of the killings going on?
Are we aware
Of how much our people
Are we aware
That parents are being
Killed and their children
Abandoned to themselves
Are we aware
Of the way we are tearing
Are we aware?
Are we really aware?
That we are slowly
Destroying our own world?
I don’t think we are aware;
We are not aware;
We are blind;
We have eyes
But we don’t see;
We have eyes,
But we are blind;
We better see;
We better be aware.
We better examine ourselves;
Examine our conscious;
We seem blank;
We definitely are blind;
We are not aware.
Brothers and sisters
Of the world!
What are we doing
About the evil
Ravaging the world?
Devouring the world;
Storming the world daily;
What are we doing?
Why are we quarreling?
Have we forgotten
The ten commandments?
Thou shall not kill?
Where is love gone?
Many are suffering;
Tears are flowing like
Water in an ocean.
Let us do something.
Let us stop this evil;
It is too much.
Your prayers are needed; Many people are going through pain, For them, the future is bleak, They have been displaced From their homes; No shelter over their heads; No food to eat; No good source of water to drink; No bed to lie on; Not sure of a meal a day; War rages on around them. Would anyone say a prayer For all these desperate people That God may do something about their suffering! Please, pray.
“Suffering can serve as a challenge to overcome suffering. Many have used it for this purpose. It can also be used as an excuse to resign to a life of suffering. Many have used it this way too. The choice is yours.”